1 00:00:23,590 --> 00:00:09,110 welcome to the skeptic zone the podcast 2 00:00:32,540 --> 00:00:27,429 yes it's the skeptic zone episode number 3 00:00:34,220 --> 00:00:32,550 179 for the 24th of March 2012 Richard 4 00:00:36,350 --> 00:00:34,230 Saunders here with you from Sydney 5 00:00:40,639 --> 00:00:36,360 Australia not much time to talk we have 6 00:00:45,229 --> 00:00:40,649 such a packed episode today starting off 7 00:00:48,529 --> 00:00:45,239 with sex let me just say that again sex 8 00:00:50,959 --> 00:00:48,539 I think you get the message yes we 9 00:00:53,180 --> 00:00:50,969 really mean it sex xx me nods going to 10 00:00:57,020 --> 00:00:53,190 be interviewing doctor Bella Elwood 11 00:01:01,069 --> 00:00:57,030 Clayton who is a sexual anthropologist 12 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:01,079 good heavens have a very strong cup of 13 00:01:06,980 --> 00:01:03,210 coffee and listen to maynards interview 14 00:01:09,649 --> 00:01:06,990 with dr. Elwood Clayton one of maynards 15 00:01:12,830 --> 00:01:09,659 best interviews coming up at the top of 16 00:01:14,270 --> 00:01:12,840 the show and then coming up after the 17 00:01:17,749 --> 00:01:14,280 break it's a penny for your thoughts 18 00:01:21,770 --> 00:01:17,759 with penny chan in LA penny interviews 19 00:01:23,810 --> 00:01:21,780 Jared Kaufman who is also known as Timmy 20 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:23,820 from the popular online show mr. deity 21 00:01:30,999 --> 00:01:27,570 nor mr. deity he's also involved for the 22 00:01:33,859 --> 00:01:31,009 independent investigations group aig in 23 00:01:36,890 --> 00:01:33,869 LA which is a volunteer-based 24 00:01:38,929 --> 00:01:36,900 organization founded by Jim under down 25 00:01:41,539 --> 00:01:38,939 she wondered out haven't seen him for a 26 00:01:45,289 --> 00:01:41,549 while hope to catch up with him in Tam 27 00:01:47,870 --> 00:01:45,299 ya tam in Las Vegas anyway tuning in the 28 00:01:51,350 --> 00:01:47,880 middle of the show for pennies interview 29 00:01:54,410 --> 00:01:51,360 with Jared Kaufman and then to wrap up 30 00:01:57,050 --> 00:01:54,420 the show one of my cue ed interviews 31 00:01:59,929 --> 00:01:57,060 when I was in Manchester recently I 32 00:02:02,060 --> 00:01:59,939 catch up with in fact I meet for the 33 00:02:04,609 --> 00:02:02,070 first time kristin Carlson from the 34 00:02:07,219 --> 00:02:04,619 Norwegian skeptics spoken to her online 35 00:02:09,650 --> 00:02:07,229 interview to before and correspondent 36 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:09,660 this was the first chance we actually 37 00:02:16,390 --> 00:02:13,490 had to meet and in fact in fact as I 38 00:02:18,460 --> 00:02:16,400 on this she's in Melbourne on a little 39 00:02:21,010 --> 00:02:18,470 bit of an Australian trip hope to be 40 00:02:23,350 --> 00:02:21,020 catching up with her for lunch next week 41 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:23,360 here in Sydney what a treat anyway 42 00:02:28,450 --> 00:02:25,730 that's at the end of the show interview 43 00:02:31,090 --> 00:02:28,460 with Kristin Carlson from Norway now a 44 00:02:33,490 --> 00:02:31,100 couple of things coming up in the coming 45 00:02:36,580 --> 00:02:33,500 week on the twenty-ninth of march in 46 00:02:38,350 --> 00:02:36,590 albury in albury New South Wales which 47 00:02:42,190 --> 00:02:38,360 is one of the major regional centers 48 00:02:44,850 --> 00:02:42,200 I'll be visiting our roving our skeptic 49 00:02:47,890 --> 00:02:44,860 zone correspondent dr. Chrissy Wilson 50 00:02:51,490 --> 00:02:47,900 now i'm attending the launch of soap 51 00:02:55,270 --> 00:02:51,500 soap soap soap soap or the science of 52 00:02:57,130 --> 00:02:55,280 anomalistic phenomena sounds really good 53 00:03:00,160 --> 00:02:57,140 really interesting if you want to come 54 00:03:04,750 --> 00:03:00,170 along to see the launch of soap which is 55 00:03:08,170 --> 00:03:04,760 a free event then visit www skeptic zone 56 00:03:12,550 --> 00:03:08,180 TV and click on the link from the show 57 00:03:14,980 --> 00:03:12,560 notes for today's episode can't wait to 58 00:03:18,640 --> 00:03:14,990 go and visit Chrissy and helped her 59 00:03:20,950 --> 00:03:18,650 launch soap which means sadly I won't be 60 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:20,960 back quite in time to go to the 61 00:03:25,030 --> 00:03:22,970 Australian skeptics dinner here in 62 00:03:27,550 --> 00:03:25,040 Sydney where the special guest is 63 00:03:30,580 --> 00:03:27,560 professor john dwyer he's going to be 64 00:03:32,980 --> 00:03:30,590 speaking about friends of science in 65 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:32,990 medicine now you want to book your 66 00:03:36,310 --> 00:03:34,850 ticket for this dinner and talk by 67 00:03:42,070 --> 00:03:36,320 professor john dwyer it's on the 68 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:42,080 thirty-first of march at 630pm at the 69 00:03:48,730 --> 00:03:44,930 ride eastwood Leagues Club best thing to 70 00:03:52,450 --> 00:03:48,740 do is to go to ww skeptics calm day you 71 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:52,460 click the link buy your ticket go along 72 00:03:57,580 --> 00:03:54,770 and hear what Professor Dwyer has to say 73 00:04:00,550 --> 00:03:57,590 about the fight the fight against the 74 00:04:04,570 --> 00:04:00,560 sheer lunacy of the extreme forms of 75 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:04,580 quackery like homeopathy someone should 76 00:04:09,610 --> 00:04:08,210 put that into a song hmm right well it's 77 00:04:11,470 --> 00:04:09,620 about all I have to say for right now 78 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:11,480 I'm going to run downstairs you know I'm 79 00:04:14,830 --> 00:04:13,610 not going to go to the fridge and look 80 00:04:16,300 --> 00:04:14,840 for something to drink i'm going to run 81 00:04:18,460 --> 00:04:16,310 downstairs and practice a few magic 82 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:18,470 tricks because oh yes oh yes uncle 83 00:04:22,300 --> 00:04:19,730 Richard's been roped in to be the 84 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:22,310 magician and his nephews Harry Potter 85 00:04:27,670 --> 00:04:24,650 themed birthday party 86 00:04:30,490 --> 00:04:27,680 this afternoon better practice and magic 87 00:04:34,540 --> 00:04:30,500 yes I'll do that I'll do that I'll 88 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:34,550 disappear do that while you enjoy the 89 00:04:58,550 --> 00:04:54,980 here's my not spooky action at a 90 00:05:04,170 --> 00:05:01,830 why is everybody having better sex than 91 00:05:05,700 --> 00:05:04,180 me you and apparently everyone's having 92 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:05,710 it more often as well now someone who 93 00:05:09,450 --> 00:05:07,210 might be able to answer this question as 94 00:05:11,700 --> 00:05:09,460 well as a few other things that I would 95 00:05:14,340 --> 00:05:11,710 like to know is dr. Bella Elwood Clayton 96 00:05:17,220 --> 00:05:14,350 author of sex drive in pursuit of female 97 00:05:20,490 --> 00:05:17,230 desire and the dr. Behler it wouldn't 98 00:05:22,770 --> 00:05:20,500 load is your sexual anthropologist yes 99 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:22,780 that's right now normally like I would 100 00:05:27,330 --> 00:05:24,130 describe myself as that but that's just 101 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:27,340 cuz I've been around puts up I mean what 102 00:05:30,990 --> 00:05:28,810 we get to do you get to go to like the 103 00:05:32,220 --> 00:05:31,000 Andes or anything or you know overseas 104 00:05:34,710 --> 00:05:32,230 what you got to do with the sexual 105 00:05:36,660 --> 00:05:34,720 anthropologist right yes the sexual 106 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:36,670 anthropologist look at how sex and 107 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:39,250 sexuality are shaped by culture so we 108 00:05:44,700 --> 00:05:41,410 might study things such as sex tourism 109 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:44,710 or first sex or how contraception is 110 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:48,250 used in africa vs downtown melbourne and 111 00:05:52,230 --> 00:05:50,170 where did you get your doctor didn't 112 00:05:55,110 --> 00:05:52,240 what did you study yes I'm I didn't 113 00:05:56,880 --> 00:05:55,120 might be a in anthropology in in that 114 00:05:59,070 --> 00:05:56,890 concordia university in montreal in 115 00:06:00,420 --> 00:05:59,080 canada and then came to australia which 116 00:06:03,420 --> 00:06:00,430 is where i was actually born and my 117 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:03,430 father's from to do my PhD at Melbourne 118 00:06:08,940 --> 00:06:06,130 Uni and what do you do on on a daily 119 00:06:12,060 --> 00:06:08,950 basis do you currently undertaking a 120 00:06:13,530 --> 00:06:12,070 study do people yeah turn up and book 121 00:06:15,930 --> 00:06:13,540 stuff on you with Medicare how do you 122 00:06:18,390 --> 00:06:15,940 what do you do well these days um you 123 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:18,400 know I after I left University i would 124 00:06:23,250 --> 00:06:20,530 say i published a fair few papers after 125 00:06:24,570 --> 00:06:23,260 i'm completing my PhD and i thought you 126 00:06:26,580 --> 00:06:24,580 know this is a bit frustrating the 127 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:26,590 research that were coming up with isn't 128 00:06:30,510 --> 00:06:29,170 being heard by main the mainstream 129 00:06:32,610 --> 00:06:30,520 people aren't getting this it's just 130 00:06:35,310 --> 00:06:32,620 sort of been circulated in academic 131 00:06:37,530 --> 00:06:35,320 journals so i decided i'd like to write 132 00:06:40,020 --> 00:06:37,540 for popular culture and write about 133 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:40,030 sexuality and cross culturally and love 134 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:42,730 and relationships so i've done done just 135 00:06:47,190 --> 00:06:44,650 that and have been writing columns and 136 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:47,200 articles in australian newspapers and 137 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:49,930 magazines and priyanka p and giving 138 00:06:54,660 --> 00:06:52,090 people advice as well and when i first 139 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:54,670 saw your book sex drive and turn the 140 00:06:58,590 --> 00:06:56,050 back over that says when it comes to 141 00:07:00,300 --> 00:06:58,600 women's priority is sex on top and you 142 00:07:03,210 --> 00:07:00,310 know their sex drive seems to be waning 143 00:07:04,740 --> 00:07:03,220 and I thought well well yeah I mean I 144 00:07:06,450 --> 00:07:04,750 mean not just talking about with 145 00:07:09,510 --> 00:07:06,460 everybody sex drive is under pressure 146 00:07:11,670 --> 00:07:09,520 would stress work with various ages so 147 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:11,680 it doesn't surprise me at all 148 00:07:16,379 --> 00:07:13,690 this is the case so so what is 149 00:07:18,930 --> 00:07:16,389 particularly in women's case here well 150 00:07:22,860 --> 00:07:18,940 generally I believe women don't want sex 151 00:07:24,330 --> 00:07:22,870 because they don't feel sexy and we see 152 00:07:26,279 --> 00:07:24,340 that sex declines in a number of studies 153 00:07:28,260 --> 00:07:26,289 for for numerous reasons for both men 154 00:07:31,650 --> 00:07:28,270 and women it can be decline over the 155 00:07:33,270 --> 00:07:31,660 duration of a relationship as we age due 156 00:07:35,580 --> 00:07:33,280 to life pressures and certainly because 157 00:07:37,260 --> 00:07:35,590 of having children so women particularly 158 00:07:39,330 --> 00:07:37,270 there's a number of reasons I think 159 00:07:42,390 --> 00:07:39,340 contribute to our perhaps our lower 160 00:07:46,650 --> 00:07:42,400 levels of libido and these include body 161 00:07:49,529 --> 00:07:46,660 image parenting role overload depression 162 00:07:52,050 --> 00:07:49,539 and arguably aging as well how can you 163 00:07:54,540 --> 00:07:52,060 isolate any one of these I mean to me 164 00:07:56,490 --> 00:07:54,550 they sound like it what a statistician 165 00:07:58,350 --> 00:07:56,500 would call a synergism like any one of 166 00:07:59,969 --> 00:07:58,360 them on their own they're all added up 167 00:08:01,020 --> 00:07:59,979 they add up to more than all of them 168 00:08:02,999 --> 00:08:01,030 would be on their own put together 169 00:08:05,900 --> 00:08:03,009 exactly right and they add up to women 170 00:08:08,730 --> 00:08:05,910 feeling tired and not sexy and like the 171 00:08:10,469 --> 00:08:08,740 spaces that they do have empty spaces in 172 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:10,479 their life you know it's sex not what 173 00:08:15,029 --> 00:08:13,090 they want to be filled with that so I'm 174 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:15,039 actually just calling to question you 175 00:08:19,500 --> 00:08:17,650 know what what role the sensuality have 176 00:08:21,300 --> 00:08:19,510 in our life that's up to individuals 177 00:08:23,339 --> 00:08:21,310 have been a couple to negotiate i 178 00:08:26,850 --> 00:08:23,349 believe and i think we can stop 179 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:26,860 necessarily respond creating what what 180 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:28,930 role sex in such men sex and sensuality 181 00:08:32,969 --> 00:08:30,970 is in their life based on what the media 182 00:08:35,100 --> 00:08:32,979 and society are telling us is that right 183 00:08:36,570 --> 00:08:35,110 amount or even science is telling us and 184 00:08:39,029 --> 00:08:36,580 try to come up with something that suits 185 00:08:40,560 --> 00:08:39,039 your partner and yourself and so do you 186 00:08:42,750 --> 00:08:40,570 think a lot of people think that 187 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:42,760 everyone else is having better sex more 188 00:08:46,890 --> 00:08:45,490 often more merely because I they might 189 00:08:49,050 --> 00:08:46,900 not talk about it server on thinks 190 00:08:50,850 --> 00:08:49,060 that's got to be the case or because the 191 00:08:53,699 --> 00:08:50,860 media and particularly magazines that 192 00:08:55,769 --> 00:08:53,709 want Cosmo and even dolly to a system 193 00:08:57,660 --> 00:08:55,779 where do they play their role in it well 194 00:09:00,000 --> 00:08:57,670 certainly I you know we are growing up 195 00:09:02,340 --> 00:09:00,010 watching films where everything seems to 196 00:09:05,730 --> 00:09:02,350 be pointed to how to find love how to 197 00:09:08,370 --> 00:09:05,740 attract love and desire and and you know 198 00:09:10,530 --> 00:09:08,380 I'm wrangling the one but what happens 199 00:09:12,060 --> 00:09:10,540 after we found the person we want to 200 00:09:14,430 --> 00:09:12,070 share our life with if we can even 201 00:09:17,010 --> 00:09:14,440 achieve that so great but then how do we 202 00:09:19,590 --> 00:09:17,020 maintain love how do we maintain passion 203 00:09:23,010 --> 00:09:19,600 our expectations of passionate long-term 204 00:09:24,780 --> 00:09:23,020 monogamy are so extraordinary and that 205 00:09:25,290 --> 00:09:24,790 leaves many of us feeling like our 206 00:09:27,060 --> 00:09:25,300 relation 207 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:27,070 chips don't match they don't live up to 208 00:09:31,230 --> 00:09:29,050 it and that's not you know a good 209 00:09:33,060 --> 00:09:31,240 feeling for anybody to have weird look 210 00:09:35,310 --> 00:09:33,070 in your book you you write a bit about 211 00:09:37,170 --> 00:09:35,320 the the work of Rose me bass song now 212 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:37,180 and she talks about that the sexual 213 00:09:41,810 --> 00:09:39,730 response modes and females there and 214 00:09:44,519 --> 00:09:41,820 which is kind of technical and basically 215 00:09:45,930 --> 00:09:44,529 quoting from your book here it says two 216 00:09:49,110 --> 00:09:45,940 women who are not happy with their lack 217 00:09:51,660 --> 00:09:49,120 of desire she says basically go and find 218 00:09:53,759 --> 00:09:51,670 a sexual stimulus and that choose and 219 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:53,769 you decide to be receptive to it that 220 00:09:57,990 --> 00:09:56,170 seems like pretty basic advice like if 221 00:09:59,490 --> 00:09:58,000 you see something you like go do it but 222 00:10:01,350 --> 00:09:59,500 you think that that's you know that is 223 00:10:04,460 --> 00:10:01,360 either oversimplifying it or she could 224 00:10:06,810 --> 00:10:04,470 be wrong right well she is an 225 00:10:08,250 --> 00:10:06,820 international expert in her area however 226 00:10:10,050 --> 00:10:08,260 there's other experts that have 227 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:10,060 different ideas about what the female 228 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:11,890 sexual response model is and how it 229 00:10:16,290 --> 00:10:14,050 works and basically what I'm talking 230 00:10:18,420 --> 00:10:16,300 about here is a bit technical but we 231 00:10:20,970 --> 00:10:18,430 used to believe from master and Johnson 232 00:10:24,060 --> 00:10:20,980 that there's four stages of sexual 233 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:24,070 excitement and human beings look who 234 00:10:28,790 --> 00:10:25,930 could not like the plateau stage but 235 00:10:31,519 --> 00:10:28,800 Randy and it's a great name for it to 236 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:31,529 excitement plateau orgasm and resolution 237 00:10:35,819 --> 00:10:34,450 but we you know researchers realize our 238 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:35,829 sexual function is a lot more 239 00:10:40,110 --> 00:10:38,170 complicated where to desire fit in in 240 00:10:42,210 --> 00:10:40,120 the psychological ah gical and cultural 241 00:10:44,430 --> 00:10:42,220 aspects so we've been trying to work 242 00:10:46,850 --> 00:10:44,440 that out in subsequent models Bassam 243 00:10:50,550 --> 00:10:46,860 believes that women don't experience 244 00:10:52,590 --> 00:10:50,560 spontaneous desire once on there in an 245 00:10:54,569 --> 00:10:52,600 established relationship for that by and 246 00:10:56,490 --> 00:10:54,579 large once you've settled down women 247 00:10:59,100 --> 00:10:56,500 aren't to be initiating sex now is this 248 00:11:00,660 --> 00:10:59,110 because of some serotonin type chemical 249 00:11:02,250 --> 00:11:00,670 in the brain that gets burned out after 250 00:11:04,350 --> 00:11:02,260 a period of time I don't think that's 251 00:11:05,639 --> 00:11:04,360 why she thinks that by I definitely do 252 00:11:07,710 --> 00:11:05,649 think there's a strong biochemical 253 00:11:10,199 --> 00:11:07,720 aspect all of this but I think what 254 00:11:12,949 --> 00:11:10,209 she's arguing is that because women 255 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:12,959 don't may not necessarily feel 256 00:11:18,630 --> 00:11:15,250 spontaneous desire for sex to start off 257 00:11:21,180 --> 00:11:18,640 if they go into sex with their partner 258 00:11:24,210 --> 00:11:21,190 desire very well may kick in in that 259 00:11:26,310 --> 00:11:24,220 process however that's one kind of angle 260 00:11:28,769 --> 00:11:26,320 at looking at as many other researchers 261 00:11:31,769 --> 00:11:28,779 believe that that's not the case there 262 00:11:33,990 --> 00:11:31,779 was a study done to see which sex model 263 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:34,000 suits women best and about a third were 264 00:11:39,129 --> 00:11:36,370 in agreeance with rosemary baths on a 265 00:11:40,809 --> 00:11:39,139 third of women fit the Masters 266 00:11:43,210 --> 00:11:40,819 Johnson model and a surfeit another 267 00:11:45,369 --> 00:11:43,220 model so there still isn't agreement 268 00:11:47,259 --> 00:11:45,379 about how female sexuality works in so 269 00:11:49,569 --> 00:11:47,269 many different ways we don't can't agree 270 00:11:51,819 --> 00:11:49,579 on what female sexual dysfunction is we 271 00:11:53,889 --> 00:11:51,829 can't agree on sexual function for women 272 00:11:55,780 --> 00:11:53,899 nor if women have a definitive sexual 273 00:11:58,239 --> 00:11:55,790 peak so that's a lot of actually 274 00:12:00,639 --> 00:11:58,249 mysterious yeah one of the things that 275 00:12:02,859 --> 00:12:00,649 I've noticed in women's magazines as 276 00:12:06,189 --> 00:12:02,869 I've got older is that they keep seeming 277 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:06,199 they see me to keep putting the woman's 278 00:12:12,489 --> 00:12:09,410 sexual peak back I remember when I was 279 00:12:14,259 --> 00:12:12,499 younger they used to say it was 30s or 280 00:12:16,239 --> 00:12:14,269 something and they've moved it into the 281 00:12:18,759 --> 00:12:16,249 40s and they send a big putting it 282 00:12:20,530 --> 00:12:18,769 higher as the baby boomers get older is 283 00:12:22,210 --> 00:12:20,540 this to sell magazines or is there any 284 00:12:23,710 --> 00:12:22,220 statistical evidence to prove that the 285 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:23,720 woman's sexual peak seems to be getting 286 00:12:27,879 --> 00:12:25,970 older well I just think this is so 287 00:12:29,530 --> 00:12:27,889 interesting it really shows you know the 288 00:12:31,150 --> 00:12:29,540 term I didn't notice beforehand but it's 289 00:12:33,189 --> 00:12:31,160 a cultural mem so it's something that 290 00:12:36,069 --> 00:12:33,199 everybody believes well a meme I love 291 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:36,079 that it's a made-up word ma ma mean many 292 00:12:39,729 --> 00:12:37,850 meaning everyone thinking the same thing 293 00:12:41,289 --> 00:12:39,739 at the same time didn't mean as much 294 00:12:43,150 --> 00:12:41,299 before there was the internet but with 295 00:12:44,530 --> 00:12:43,160 the Internet yeah everybody can think 296 00:12:45,909 --> 00:12:44,540 this everyone knows the same thing 297 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:45,919 because of all reading the same thing 298 00:12:52,329 --> 00:12:47,569 ever everyone's watching the cat in that 299 00:12:56,199 --> 00:12:52,339 keyboard and god that's sexy so with 300 00:12:57,639 --> 00:12:56,209 that there's this idea yes that women in 301 00:12:59,650 --> 00:12:57,649 you know in their mid-30s have their 302 00:13:01,569 --> 00:12:59,660 sexual peak and men in their adolescent 303 00:13:04,150 --> 00:13:01,579 years but do you know that this all 304 00:13:06,729 --> 00:13:04,160 comes down to one study by alfred kinsey 305 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:06,739 a sexologist I think believe it was in 306 00:13:12,609 --> 00:13:09,410 the 50s and he found in his one study 307 00:13:14,470 --> 00:13:12,619 that women who were I think 36 were 308 00:13:16,689 --> 00:13:14,480 masturbating and having the most orgasms 309 00:13:18,850 --> 00:13:16,699 and so that's what it was based on and 310 00:13:20,859 --> 00:13:18,860 again this is a difficult like this is a 311 00:13:22,059 --> 00:13:20,869 difficult thing to do Studies on in the 312 00:13:24,249 --> 00:13:22,069 first place is that part of the reason 313 00:13:25,689 --> 00:13:24,259 why there's a scarcity of information 314 00:13:27,159 --> 00:13:25,699 because is this the kind of thing it's 315 00:13:29,319 --> 00:13:27,169 difficult to get past an ethics 316 00:13:30,909 --> 00:13:29,329 committee is it you can't really you 317 00:13:33,309 --> 00:13:30,919 know take a video camera on your notepad 318 00:13:36,639 --> 00:13:33,319 into people's bedrooms at night so it is 319 00:13:38,349 --> 00:13:36,649 really complicated and there's been a 320 00:13:40,419 --> 00:13:38,359 lot of stigma attached about studying 321 00:13:43,210 --> 00:13:40,429 sexuality it's interesting though it's 322 00:13:45,479 --> 00:13:43,220 really since viagra has hit the scene 323 00:13:48,939 --> 00:13:45,489 and become so financially successful 324 00:13:51,460 --> 00:13:48,949 that women's sexuality later in life and 325 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:51,470 in general if becomes the area of 326 00:13:54,999 --> 00:13:52,850 scientific inquiry 327 00:13:56,470 --> 00:13:55,009 good money can be made from it right dr. 328 00:13:58,449 --> 00:13:56,480 Bella this is definitely what I want to 329 00:14:03,340 --> 00:13:58,459 talk to you about that female sexual 330 00:14:07,329 --> 00:14:03,350 arousal disorder or fsad now this is is 331 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:07,339 this one of these made up or diseases 332 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:09,050 that just went around and if you could 333 00:14:14,350 --> 00:14:11,569 sell a female viagra and tell people 334 00:14:17,680 --> 00:14:14,360 that they need it man you know you are 335 00:14:20,769 --> 00:14:17,690 printing money yes yes well it's very 336 00:14:22,569 --> 00:14:20,779 interesting so in the 70s this notion of 337 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:22,579 female sexual dysfunction started 338 00:14:26,079 --> 00:14:24,410 popping up in the literature here and 339 00:14:29,079 --> 00:14:26,089 there and that was involving issues 340 00:14:31,809 --> 00:14:29,089 associated with desire arousal orgasm 341 00:14:33,610 --> 00:14:31,819 and sexual pain and and then guess again 342 00:14:35,740 --> 00:14:33,620 we hear about viagra this becomes a 343 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:35,750 widespread sirs idea that people are 344 00:14:41,110 --> 00:14:37,850 getting used to that people are taking a 345 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:41,120 drug to help female sexual dysfunction 346 00:14:45,879 --> 00:14:43,730 now dr. Bella I would like not being 347 00:14:47,410 --> 00:14:45,889 with females they've taken viagra a few 348 00:14:50,019 --> 00:14:47,420 times and have claimed that it's had and 349 00:14:51,670 --> 00:14:50,029 a positive effect on them and is that 350 00:14:53,110 --> 00:14:51,680 the case is there any study for this 351 00:14:55,030 --> 00:14:53,120 although they just experiencing the 352 00:14:57,699 --> 00:14:55,040 placebo effects all right oh it's 353 00:15:00,429 --> 00:14:57,709 interesting isn't it viagra has been 354 00:15:02,710 --> 00:15:00,439 given to women it's medical name being 355 00:15:04,689 --> 00:15:02,720 sylvan phil and other similar drugs as 356 00:15:07,499 --> 00:15:04,699 well and they've largely proved to be 357 00:15:11,530 --> 00:15:07,509 rather disappointing although there they 358 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:11,540 produce women being wet or aroused their 359 00:15:16,389 --> 00:15:13,970 women's minds aren't so it really goes 360 00:15:18,790 --> 00:15:16,399 to show that our minds are true g-spot 361 00:15:20,860 --> 00:15:18,800 when we are looking at sex drugs for 362 00:15:23,259 --> 00:15:20,870 women has been to three different areas 363 00:15:25,150 --> 00:15:23,269 on one's drugs that affect blood flow 364 00:15:27,309 --> 00:15:25,160 which we were talking about by a grand 365 00:15:28,929 --> 00:15:27,319 such ones that affect the hormonal 366 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:28,939 system and others that affect the 367 00:15:33,579 --> 00:15:31,370 central nervous system and what do you 368 00:15:35,980 --> 00:15:33,589 think is the magic bullet for female 369 00:15:38,050 --> 00:15:35,990 sexuality drugs in the future or like 370 00:15:39,670 --> 00:15:38,060 almost anything else in our pharmacy 371 00:15:41,949 --> 00:15:39,680 there is no such thing as the magic 372 00:15:44,889 --> 00:15:41,959 bullet for everyone well there isn't yet 373 00:15:47,199 --> 00:15:44,899 but I predict 15 years from now within 374 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:47,209 15 years frame there will be a sex drug 375 00:15:51,069 --> 00:15:49,610 filament arrival viagra and because 376 00:15:52,929 --> 00:15:51,079 there's mean leather pants because that 377 00:15:57,040 --> 00:15:52,939 drives everyone crazy doesn't matter 378 00:15:59,470 --> 00:15:57,050 what sex they are I've just came back 379 00:16:01,990 --> 00:15:59,480 though to the idea of how female sexual 380 00:16:05,199 --> 00:16:02,000 dysfunction became so popular it was 381 00:16:06,140 --> 00:16:05,209 found in a paper in 1999 in the Journal 382 00:16:08,660 --> 00:16:06,150 of American medal 383 00:16:10,610 --> 00:16:08,670 Medical Association that forty-three 384 00:16:13,490 --> 00:16:10,620 percent of women had a female sexual 385 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:13,500 desire at sexual dysfunction so you know 386 00:16:18,530 --> 00:16:15,570 that sounds quite an obvious made a 387 00:16:21,350 --> 00:16:18,540 message to women doesn't it and it came 388 00:16:23,990 --> 00:16:21,360 a hot topic of conversation it certainly 389 00:16:25,820 --> 00:16:24,000 does and the reading I've done pride as 390 00:16:28,670 --> 00:16:25,830 interviewer particularly from Bianca 391 00:16:30,110 --> 00:16:28,680 laurino I believe she actually looked at 392 00:16:32,180 --> 00:16:30,120 the one of the people has looked at the 393 00:16:33,770 --> 00:16:32,190 methodology of this study and I'm sure 394 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:33,780 you're about to tell us where it perhaps 395 00:16:38,470 --> 00:16:36,330 may be flawed yes just amazing isn't it 396 00:16:41,660 --> 00:16:38,480 so women were classified with a 397 00:16:43,730 --> 00:16:41,670 dysfunction if they answered yes just 398 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:43,740 one of seven questions and these 399 00:16:48,890 --> 00:16:46,170 included whether they'd experienced lack 400 00:16:51,590 --> 00:16:48,900 of desire for sex arousal difficulties 401 00:16:55,220 --> 00:16:51,600 whether they had felt anxious before sex 402 00:16:57,800 --> 00:16:55,230 and look I look that's me every time and 403 00:16:59,570 --> 00:16:57,810 also one which i find it could be a 404 00:17:01,760 --> 00:16:59,580 problem but I wouldn't consider it 405 00:17:04,460 --> 00:17:01,770 always a problem is that if the women 406 00:17:06,650 --> 00:17:04,470 came to climax to quickly quickly well 407 00:17:08,510 --> 00:17:06,660 now that could be a problem but it isn't 408 00:17:10,310 --> 00:17:08,520 always considered in the negative 409 00:17:12,770 --> 00:17:10,320 category I mean we can see it's quite 410 00:17:14,750 --> 00:17:12,780 ludicrous to define someone as having a 411 00:17:16,790 --> 00:17:14,760 dysfunction if they sometimes don't 412 00:17:19,430 --> 00:17:16,800 desire sex or their climax too quickly 413 00:17:22,579 --> 00:17:19,440 and the authors also didn't include the 414 00:17:23,900 --> 00:17:22,589 most important a DSM criteria question 415 00:17:27,010 --> 00:17:23,910 and this is I'm referring to the 416 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:27,020 Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of 417 00:17:31,550 --> 00:17:29,850 Mental Health which is like the Bible of 418 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:31,560 mental health hang on is that the new 419 00:17:36,500 --> 00:17:33,570 one that's got things like orthorexia 420 00:17:38,030 --> 00:17:36,510 nervosa in it well there's one the last 421 00:17:39,500 --> 00:17:38,040 one was done in two thousand and the 422 00:17:41,450 --> 00:17:39,510 newest one is coming out in two thousand 423 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:41,460 dollars that's got author x universe or 424 00:17:44,570 --> 00:17:42,810 I like mentioning that that is the 425 00:17:47,630 --> 00:17:44,580 unhealthy obsession with eating healthy 426 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:47,640 food yeah you know it's the people to 427 00:17:51,380 --> 00:17:49,770 take oh I've got my carrot to it today 428 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:51,390 and if they don't take their carrot they 429 00:17:54,020 --> 00:17:52,650 don't eat anything till I get home and 430 00:17:57,530 --> 00:17:54,030 have their protein and in the process 431 00:17:59,570 --> 00:17:57,540 cause more damage to themselves yeah my 432 00:18:00,890 --> 00:17:59,580 mind yeah well that's what I mean yeah 433 00:18:03,620 --> 00:18:00,900 that's why people get suspicious when 434 00:18:04,610 --> 00:18:03,630 you have a fsad come into that because 435 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:04,620 they go hang on a minute what about 436 00:18:09,290 --> 00:18:06,690 orthorexia nervosa but please continue 437 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:09,300 dr. Bella sure so in this study they 438 00:18:13,580 --> 00:18:11,250 weren't asking women are they distressed 439 00:18:16,100 --> 00:18:13,590 by their so-called low levels of desire 440 00:18:17,870 --> 00:18:16,110 or you know climax scene too rapidly or 441 00:18:19,970 --> 00:18:17,880 and distress is an important element 442 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:19,980 that is part of now the diet 443 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:22,650 the criteria to define female sexual 444 00:18:28,669 --> 00:18:26,610 dysfunction hmm and so it's like 445 00:18:30,380 --> 00:18:28,679 obviously if there's money to buy their 446 00:18:33,110 --> 00:18:30,390 like a pharmaceutical company doing a 447 00:18:36,500 --> 00:18:33,120 very large far-reaching study as we 448 00:18:37,669 --> 00:18:36,510 speak to either get this solved one way 449 00:18:38,900 --> 00:18:37,679 or the other so they can find out 450 00:18:41,150 --> 00:18:38,910 whether they can make money one might 451 00:18:45,530 --> 00:18:41,160 other well essentially this is what I 452 00:18:47,570 --> 00:18:45,540 believe is that for hospital epic 453 00:18:49,970 --> 00:18:47,580 communities to approve a new drug trial 454 00:18:52,580 --> 00:18:49,980 they must first have a disease for the 455 00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:52,590 product to treat so inflated rates the 456 00:18:57,350 --> 00:18:54,210 female sexual dysfunction create a need 457 00:18:59,630 --> 00:18:57,360 for treatment and we'll see that in the 458 00:19:01,970 --> 00:18:59,640 DSM which we are talking about the DSM 459 00:19:03,980 --> 00:19:01,980 for the Bible of mental health the 460 00:19:07,700 --> 00:19:03,990 definitions of female sexual dysfunction 461 00:19:10,190 --> 00:19:07,710 that we are using came about from a 462 00:19:11,990 --> 00:19:10,200 number of conferences in which many of 463 00:19:13,700 --> 00:19:12,000 the researchers had linked to drug 464 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:13,710 companies for instance in one conference 465 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:16,770 18 at a 19 participants are found to 466 00:19:22,610 --> 00:19:18,690 have a link to total of twenty-two drug 467 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:22,620 companies um I'm no hang on yeah well 468 00:19:27,380 --> 00:19:24,210 what surprise on thinking oh hang on 469 00:19:31,039 --> 00:19:27,390 conflict of interest why that's alive 470 00:19:33,830 --> 00:19:31,049 and and it is you know is it confusing 471 00:19:35,659 --> 00:19:33,840 area and many of the top sex researchers 472 00:19:38,380 --> 00:19:35,669 from around the world although they are 473 00:19:41,150 --> 00:19:38,390 being funded or have you know act as 474 00:19:43,310 --> 00:19:41,160 advisory on advisory boards for Big 475 00:19:45,110 --> 00:19:43,320 Pharma and they say that their work 476 00:19:48,530 --> 00:19:45,120 isn't biased and that they're being 477 00:19:50,810 --> 00:19:48,540 transparent but from afar it certainly 478 00:19:52,669 --> 00:19:50,820 makes things you know you want to put 479 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:52,679 question what happening and of course 480 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:54,210 that you have the problem you have the 481 00:19:57,590 --> 00:19:55,650 the same thing that people point out 482 00:19:59,450 --> 00:19:57,600 with vaccines but the problem is if you 483 00:20:01,190 --> 00:19:59,460 want to talk to someone who's an expert 484 00:20:02,120 --> 00:20:01,200 on the flu you probably have to get 485 00:20:04,010 --> 00:20:02,130 someone from the world health 486 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:04,020 organization that knows all about it to 487 00:20:07,850 --> 00:20:06,090 help you so these would be the people 488 00:20:10,610 --> 00:20:07,860 that you'd ask anyway wouldn't they yes 489 00:20:13,700 --> 00:20:10,620 that's right that's right and so there 490 00:20:16,340 --> 00:20:13,710 has been numerous studies from around 491 00:20:19,970 --> 00:20:16,350 the world trying to figure out how many 492 00:20:21,710 --> 00:20:19,980 women are experiencing female sexual 493 00:20:27,530 --> 00:20:21,720 dysfunction particularly in terms of low 494 00:20:28,820 --> 00:20:27,540 desire the disorder in this dsm Bibles 495 00:20:32,210 --> 00:20:28,830 mental health that they've come up with 496 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:32,220 is called HSP d hypoactive sexual desire 497 00:20:36,740 --> 00:20:33,810 disorder 498 00:20:39,530 --> 00:20:36,750 means riya current absence of sexual 499 00:20:41,360 --> 00:20:39,540 fantasies a desire for sex which causes 500 00:20:43,220 --> 00:20:41,370 one Mart distress and cannot be 501 00:20:46,010 --> 00:20:43,230 explained by another mental disorder 502 00:20:48,020 --> 00:20:46,020 drug or medical condition I really 503 00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:48,030 believe though that this chronic low 504 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:51,210 libido is the natural normal state of 505 00:20:54,650 --> 00:20:53,250 affairs too many women particularly in 506 00:20:56,570 --> 00:20:54,660 long-term relationships I don't think 507 00:20:58,160 --> 00:20:56,580 it's necessarily a disorder but that 508 00:21:01,190 --> 00:20:58,170 that's what I was going to ask you how 509 00:21:03,170 --> 00:21:01,200 do we quantify the range of as we all 510 00:21:05,150 --> 00:21:03,180 ask all scientists like to draw draw a 511 00:21:07,490 --> 00:21:05,160 nice bell curve how do you figure out 512 00:21:10,130 --> 00:21:07,500 what is the correct so-called libido for 513 00:21:12,290 --> 00:21:10,140 anyone at any age in any culture exactly 514 00:21:15,110 --> 00:21:12,300 that is the that is the question you've 515 00:21:17,360 --> 00:21:15,120 exactly hit it and the thing too is that 516 00:21:20,090 --> 00:21:17,370 culture as you're pointing out as a huge 517 00:21:22,610 --> 00:21:20,100 role in our sexuality in the Victorian 518 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:22,620 times for instance low female desire was 519 00:21:27,230 --> 00:21:24,930 considered a virtue and now all of a 520 00:21:28,850 --> 00:21:27,240 sudden meant to disorder so and think 521 00:21:30,500 --> 00:21:28,860 it'll really cool diseases to like the 522 00:21:32,930 --> 00:21:30,510 vapors that's a great I've got the 523 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:32,940 vapors get my steam-powered you know 524 00:21:36,140 --> 00:21:34,650 vibrator whatever they had then and I 525 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:36,150 and that's when they were around first 526 00:21:39,830 --> 00:21:37,650 around mozhno because there was a whole 527 00:21:42,590 --> 00:21:39,840 sexual arousal problem that came in then 528 00:21:44,450 --> 00:21:42,600 mm-hmm so it it really goes to show how 529 00:21:46,100 --> 00:21:44,460 the sexuality of women what our 530 00:21:47,900 --> 00:21:46,110 sexuality should be like is quite 531 00:21:50,870 --> 00:21:47,910 fashionable depending on where we live 532 00:21:53,570 --> 00:21:50,880 and what culture were in and to call it 533 00:21:56,090 --> 00:21:53,580 science and make it an absolute is quite 534 00:21:58,880 --> 00:21:56,100 dubious I believe look and there's a 535 00:22:00,470 --> 00:21:58,890 phrase in your book and excuse me if I 536 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:00,480 misquote you there but it's something 537 00:22:06,290 --> 00:22:03,810 like women females are about passion 538 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:06,300 they're just not always about sexual 539 00:22:10,430 --> 00:22:08,610 passion yes and could you explain that 540 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:10,440 because I think that that sums things up 541 00:22:14,810 --> 00:22:12,690 beautifully oh thank you i really think 542 00:22:18,350 --> 00:22:14,820 if we look at our sex drive or our 543 00:22:20,630 --> 00:22:18,360 libido as our creative sensual energy 544 00:22:22,310 --> 00:22:20,640 our life force which some of the 545 00:22:24,950 --> 00:22:22,320 original thinkers looking at libido did 546 00:22:26,810 --> 00:22:24,960 think of it this way and then women's 547 00:22:28,820 --> 00:22:26,820 lives aren't devoid of passion we may 548 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:28,830 just be involved in passionate parent 549 00:22:34,180 --> 00:22:30,690 parenting or having passionate careers 550 00:22:37,310 --> 00:22:34,190 or presenting a whole appearance that 551 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:37,320 induces passion or our home and dinner 552 00:22:44,630 --> 00:22:40,410 tables a lot of passion and excitement 553 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:44,640 and creativity in women's lives and if 554 00:22:48,669 --> 00:22:46,730 couples decide they want more 555 00:22:51,070 --> 00:22:48,679 or sensuality in their partnerships 556 00:22:53,710 --> 00:22:51,080 women may be able to reach channel some 557 00:22:57,190 --> 00:22:53,720 of this energy and redirect it towards 558 00:22:59,590 --> 00:22:57,200 their their central partnership and look 559 00:23:01,930 --> 00:22:59,600 up how much is it our fault I mean a lot 560 00:23:04,270 --> 00:23:01,940 of men did the early research a lot of 561 00:23:06,039 --> 00:23:04,280 times here men's sex drive is being 562 00:23:07,990 --> 00:23:06,049 compared to women sex drivers if they 563 00:23:10,360 --> 00:23:08,000 should be similar powerful things at 564 00:23:11,500 --> 00:23:10,370 certain times where does that come into 565 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:11,510 the whole thing that you know women 566 00:23:14,919 --> 00:23:12,770 should be more like men sexually 567 00:23:16,870 --> 00:23:14,929 sometimes and vice versa very 568 00:23:19,360 --> 00:23:16,880 interesting point I think that reflects 569 00:23:20,799 --> 00:23:19,370 what our current culture is sort of 570 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:20,809 getting at you know sex is the new 571 00:23:25,120 --> 00:23:22,970 status symbol and those that don't have 572 00:23:27,700 --> 00:23:25,130 it and not only inferior but potentially 573 00:23:30,340 --> 00:23:27,710 dysfunctional is really interesting the 574 00:23:33,130 --> 00:23:30,350 definition of a sexless marriage in our 575 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:33,140 time period is a relationship where 576 00:23:37,450 --> 00:23:35,090 couples are having sex 10 times a year 577 00:23:38,799 --> 00:23:37,460 or less I think that's quite amazing 578 00:23:41,260 --> 00:23:38,809 that couples that have been together for 579 00:23:43,750 --> 00:23:41,270 a decade or have young screaming 580 00:23:46,299 --> 00:23:43,760 toddlers or you know enormous bills to 581 00:23:48,970 --> 00:23:46,309 pay if they're having sex once a month 582 00:23:50,140 --> 00:23:48,980 or so I think that's quite fantastic and 583 00:23:53,049 --> 00:23:50,150 they're doing a great job at keeping 584 00:23:54,490 --> 00:23:53,059 their sensual bond alive and yet here in 585 00:23:57,820 --> 00:23:54,500 our society we're labeling that as a 586 00:24:00,010 --> 00:23:57,830 sexless relationship quite intriguing if 587 00:24:02,140 --> 00:24:00,020 you could get a grant and you could get 588 00:24:04,450 --> 00:24:02,150 a study through an ethics committee what 589 00:24:06,549 --> 00:24:04,460 kind of research would you like to do in 590 00:24:07,930 --> 00:24:06,559 to sexuality in Australia in the 21st 591 00:24:09,610 --> 00:24:07,940 century that you think needs to be done 592 00:24:11,980 --> 00:24:09,620 to answer few these fundamental 593 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:11,990 questions dr. Bella I think I'd like to 594 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:15,650 explore with women how we can create 595 00:24:21,100 --> 00:24:18,890 more sensual lives how we can work at 596 00:24:23,020 --> 00:24:21,110 sexual mindfulness stealing our mind 597 00:24:25,539 --> 00:24:23,030 removing ourselves from chores and that 598 00:24:27,510 --> 00:24:25,549 ever never ending to do list of all the 599 00:24:31,930 --> 00:24:27,520 all the things we have to get done and 600 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:31,940 work out together what ways we can come 601 00:24:37,210 --> 00:24:34,490 up with to have a more erotic life and 602 00:24:40,120 --> 00:24:37,220 do you think the role of pornography has 603 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:40,130 damaged any of this and but I think you 604 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:41,690 should assume that pornography is 605 00:24:46,120 --> 00:24:43,850 fantasy not take it on as being reality 606 00:24:48,159 --> 00:24:46,130 in the same way you could say have 607 00:24:50,980 --> 00:24:48,169 Hollywood musicals damage the way people 608 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:50,990 dance so I'm just wondering how you feel 609 00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:52,850 about that well I think there's really 610 00:24:57,549 --> 00:24:54,890 two sized pornography I think it's 611 00:25:00,039 --> 00:24:57,559 certainly the exposure to young people 612 00:25:00,970 --> 00:25:00,049 young people's minds is very extensive 613 00:25:03,490 --> 00:25:00,980 and can 614 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:03,500 unrealistic expectations about the role 615 00:25:09,190 --> 00:25:06,530 of sex how women look how they act 616 00:25:11,049 --> 00:25:09,200 sexually and that can be damaging 617 00:25:14,530 --> 00:25:11,059 although traditionally haven't young 618 00:25:17,530 --> 00:25:14,540 people always had put sex at an overly 619 00:25:18,850 --> 00:25:17,540 important part of Allah it may have but 620 00:25:21,700 --> 00:25:18,860 I think there's probably a difference 621 00:25:23,620 --> 00:25:21,710 between you're looking at one centerfold 622 00:25:27,070 --> 00:25:23,630 for instance in a magazine to being able 623 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:27,080 to at the touch of your screen go to any 624 00:25:33,070 --> 00:25:29,090 country and see any sex act no matter 625 00:25:35,830 --> 00:25:33,080 how you know outrageous that said sex 626 00:25:38,950 --> 00:25:35,840 therapist often advise pornography for 627 00:25:40,630 --> 00:25:38,960 couples that are having low levels of 628 00:25:43,060 --> 00:25:40,640 desire in their relationship to spice 629 00:25:45,070 --> 00:25:43,070 things up today see it as a sexual tool 630 00:25:47,950 --> 00:25:45,080 so I think there are different elements 631 00:25:49,900 --> 00:25:47,960 to the argument yes and have when you've 632 00:25:52,419 --> 00:25:49,910 been on panels debating this very topic 633 00:25:53,590 --> 00:25:52,429 it is such an intricate topic can you 634 00:25:55,870 --> 00:25:53,600 ever found yourself getting caught up 635 00:25:59,770 --> 00:25:55,880 well certainly it's very emotional for 636 00:26:02,880 --> 00:25:59,780 people and it really hits buttons of you 637 00:26:06,010 --> 00:26:02,890 know insecurity worried about our future 638 00:26:08,590 --> 00:26:06,020 what excites us is a personal issue you 639 00:26:11,740 --> 00:26:08,600 know it really is a hotbed of inquiry 640 00:26:14,230 --> 00:26:11,750 and what would how would you answer the 641 00:26:15,909 --> 00:26:14,240 question when people say everyone seems 642 00:26:17,830 --> 00:26:15,919 to be having more sex than me more often 643 00:26:20,230 --> 00:26:17,840 and it seems to be better I mean what's 644 00:26:21,970 --> 00:26:20,240 the best way to assure us that you know 645 00:26:23,740 --> 00:26:21,980 things aren't that bad for us well I 646 00:26:25,780 --> 00:26:23,750 don't think everybody's having more sex 647 00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:25,790 than us and I think if you talk to them 648 00:26:29,620 --> 00:26:27,650 five years into their relationship it 649 00:26:31,330 --> 00:26:29,630 probably won't be the case one last 650 00:26:32,919 --> 00:26:31,340 question here's an interesting study and 651 00:26:34,120 --> 00:26:32,929 I would like to know because this you 652 00:26:36,909 --> 00:26:34,130 know this is this is I think this is a 653 00:26:39,580 --> 00:26:36,919 good one in 2007 from your book sex 654 00:26:44,049 --> 00:26:39,590 drive a 2007 American study found that 655 00:26:47,470 --> 00:26:44,059 the when lap dancers were ovulating they 656 00:26:49,390 --> 00:26:47,480 actually earned more tips than any other 657 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:49,400 time during their cycle why is that 658 00:26:53,350 --> 00:26:51,530 they're dancing better people can 659 00:26:55,210 --> 00:26:53,360 somehow get something of the phenoms 660 00:26:57,460 --> 00:26:55,220 come without had it why do you think 661 00:26:59,500 --> 00:26:57,470 that is well it is quite mysterious I 662 00:27:02,110 --> 00:26:59,510 think there's still a lot to learn about 663 00:27:04,330 --> 00:27:02,120 our hormones and our sexuality are 664 00:27:07,419 --> 00:27:04,340 ovulation and women's sexuality 665 00:27:09,430 --> 00:27:07,429 generally across the lifespan Wow okay 666 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:09,440 look thank you dr. Bella and where do 667 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:10,730 you suggest I should go for further 668 00:27:14,570 --> 00:27:13,010 reading I mean diving into Wikipedia can 669 00:27:16,250 --> 00:27:14,580 be a bit confusing and 670 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:16,260 you know i like to say wikipedia is a 671 00:27:19,279 --> 00:27:17,610 little bit like a public toilet it's 672 00:27:21,740 --> 00:27:19,289 only as good as the last person who was 673 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:21,750 there so you know you know who knows 674 00:27:25,190 --> 00:27:23,610 what's been written there is it wears a 675 00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:25,200 website we could go to get more 676 00:28:05,480 --> 00:27:27,570 information about this well there's my 677 00:28:07,399 --> 00:28:05,490 website which is www.hyken.com light by 678 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:07,409 reading material and just one last 679 00:28:11,029 --> 00:28:09,450 warning there's a lot of whoo in the 680 00:28:12,620 --> 00:28:11,039 world of sex people want to sell you all 681 00:28:14,149 --> 00:28:12,630 sorts of things over the counter to help 682 00:28:15,740 --> 00:28:14,159 your sex drive what is that the one 683 00:28:17,149 --> 00:28:15,750 thing you should just try and avoid that 684 00:28:19,580 --> 00:28:17,159 definitely doesn't work that a lot of 685 00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:19,590 people get sucked in by I think the 686 00:28:23,360 --> 00:28:21,690 thing that works the least is comparing 687 00:28:26,149 --> 00:28:23,370 our sexuality to the sensuality of 688 00:28:28,070 --> 00:28:26,159 others really just going to your home 689 00:28:30,529 --> 00:28:28,080 figuring out with your partner what rule 690 00:28:32,539 --> 00:28:30,539 sensuality wants to be in your life 691 00:28:34,190 --> 00:28:32,549 together and being frank about that 692 00:28:36,710 --> 00:28:34,200 discussion I think is really the way to 693 00:28:37,879 --> 00:28:36,720 go rather than seeking a product now I'm 694 00:28:40,490 --> 00:28:37,889 going to go out and do a bit more study 695 00:28:53,370 --> 00:28:40,500 on this lap dancing issue okay you do 696 00:28:58,389 --> 00:28:55,779 hello this is brian dunning from the 697 00:29:00,639 --> 00:28:58,399 skepta bod cast if you can be in New 698 00:29:02,620 --> 00:29:00,649 Hampshire this Monday night drop by New 699 00:29:06,879 --> 00:29:02,630 England College in Henniker to hear my 700 00:29:10,930 --> 00:29:06,889 live show sounds from beyond for free at 701 00:29:13,539 --> 00:29:10,940 the simon center sounds from beyond is a 702 00:29:15,730 --> 00:29:13,549 fun-filled hour featuring strange sounds 703 00:29:18,220 --> 00:29:15,740 that Aviva solved mysteries created 704 00:29:20,350 --> 00:29:18,230 mysteries or that help explain how and 705 00:29:23,049 --> 00:29:20,360 why our universe works the way it does 706 00:29:26,470 --> 00:29:23,059 that's new england college monday march 707 00:29:29,529 --> 00:29:26,480 twenty six twenty twelve at 7pm more 708 00:29:31,750 --> 00:29:29,539 informations at NEC edu or come to 709 00:29:34,060 --> 00:29:31,760 sceptile calm to find out how to bring 710 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:34,070 sounds from beyond to a venue near you 711 00:29:40,050 --> 00:29:50,040 you 712 00:30:01,960 --> 00:29:53,160 is penny Chen 713 00:30:07,490 --> 00:30:04,880 welcome to another episode of penny for 714 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:07,500 your thoughts right now i am at john 715 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:10,890 rails apartment you're welcome I'm here 716 00:30:18,470 --> 00:30:14,570 with John rail and large Donahue and 717 00:30:19,970 --> 00:30:18,480 Jarrett Kaufman Jarrett coffin and today 718 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:19,980 I want to beat i'm gonna be talking to 719 00:30:26,270 --> 00:30:24,450 jared kaufman about iig so um have you 720 00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:26,280 been on the skeptics on before I have 721 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:28,050 not this is my first time first time on 722 00:30:33,350 --> 00:30:29,370 the podcast so thank you thanks for 723 00:30:36,340 --> 00:30:33,360 having me so first explain what the iig 724 00:30:38,540 --> 00:30:36,350 is what the iig is the independent 725 00:30:41,780 --> 00:30:38,550 investigations group were based out of 726 00:30:44,660 --> 00:30:41,790 Hollywood California or Los Angeles and 727 00:30:46,940 --> 00:30:44,670 so where we are a paranormal and 728 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:46,950 pseudoscience investigations group made 729 00:30:51,590 --> 00:30:49,290 up of volunteer members it's a you know 730 00:30:53,060 --> 00:30:51,600 it's a it's a dues-paying organization 731 00:30:55,670 --> 00:30:53,070 that's what gives us the funds we need 732 00:30:58,610 --> 00:30:55,680 to actually carry out various tasks go 733 00:31:00,740 --> 00:30:58,620 to events and pay for the cost of these 734 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:00,750 things but we we as opposed to being 735 00:31:05,450 --> 00:31:02,490 like a meetup group that just hangs out 736 00:31:07,510 --> 00:31:05,460 and talks about skepticism we're the 737 00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:07,520 ones who are actually actively 738 00:31:12,470 --> 00:31:10,650 participating so whether we're going out 739 00:31:14,390 --> 00:31:12,480 and finding something to investigate or 740 00:31:17,090 --> 00:31:14,400 whether people are coming to us we're 741 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:17,100 always actively actively working one of 742 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:18,570 the things we're known for is we do have 743 00:31:22,850 --> 00:31:20,610 a fifty-thousand-dollar paranormal 744 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:22,860 challenge and so people will come to us 745 00:31:27,110 --> 00:31:25,290 usually online they'll email us and fill 746 00:31:29,510 --> 00:31:27,120 out an application and tell us I have 747 00:31:32,630 --> 00:31:29,520 this amazing paranormal ability of some 748 00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:32,640 sort whether it's a psychic abilities or 749 00:31:37,850 --> 00:31:35,610 our second projection or in our most 750 00:31:39,410 --> 00:31:37,860 recent case dowsing or a variety of 751 00:31:42,710 --> 00:31:39,420 other things people say to us this is 752 00:31:44,630 --> 00:31:42,720 some special ability I've got and I can 753 00:31:46,670 --> 00:31:44,640 prove it and then we say great if you 754 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:46,680 can prove it under regional scientific 755 00:31:51,500 --> 00:31:48,810 conditions which includes a protocol 756 00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:51,510 that they agree upon with us so it's not 757 00:31:55,220 --> 00:31:53,370 just us setting all the rules they have 758 00:31:57,380 --> 00:31:55,230 to say to us this is what I can do and 759 00:31:58,370 --> 00:31:57,390 we work with them to finalize something 760 00:31:59,960 --> 00:31:58,380 that they say yes that's definitely 761 00:32:01,460 --> 00:31:59,970 within the range of something that can 762 00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:01,470 do when those conditions are reasonable 763 00:32:06,020 --> 00:32:03,810 then we carry that out and assuming 764 00:32:08,330 --> 00:32:06,030 assuming they can pull it off in a 765 00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:08,340 preliminary demonstration we move on to 766 00:32:12,830 --> 00:32:10,290 a much more rigorous final test and 767 00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:12,840 that's when they would get $50,000 we 768 00:32:16,810 --> 00:32:14,450 also have a five-thousand-dollar finder 769 00:32:19,090 --> 00:32:16,820 feed anyone who brings someone to us who 770 00:32:20,770 --> 00:32:19,100 then wins the $50,000 that's our goal 771 00:32:22,270 --> 00:32:20,780 yeah it's a little extra carrot cuz 772 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:22,280 we'll always have people say does Oh am 773 00:32:26,890 --> 00:32:24,530 I my sister-in-law has this amazing 774 00:32:28,210 --> 00:32:26,900 ability but she you know she doesn't 775 00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:28,220 want to get tested she doesn't think 776 00:32:31,330 --> 00:32:29,930 it's worth it but when we say to them 777 00:32:33,100 --> 00:32:31,340 well you can also get five thousand 778 00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:33,110 dollars for bringing that person to us 779 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:34,970 and if they succeed then suddenly 780 00:32:39,670 --> 00:32:37,370 they're starting to push that person so 781 00:32:43,660 --> 00:32:39,680 that that helps and our most recent was 782 00:32:47,650 --> 00:32:43,670 we just tested a dowser actually a man 783 00:32:50,410 --> 00:32:47,660 from Phoenix Arizona sus in his 70s who 784 00:32:52,780 --> 00:32:50,420 who really genuinely believes he has 785 00:32:55,690 --> 00:32:52,790 dowsing abilities he uses this up yeah 786 00:32:58,390 --> 00:32:55,700 dowsing is a typically using a tool of 787 00:33:01,690 --> 00:32:58,400 some sort the most common is two metal 788 00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:01,700 rods l-shaped rods that you hold one in 789 00:33:06,070 --> 00:33:04,130 each hand the the short end in each hand 790 00:33:07,690 --> 00:33:06,080 and you just basically walk around 791 00:33:10,450 --> 00:33:07,700 typically a field the most common thing 792 00:33:13,300 --> 00:33:10,460 people dows for i believe is water oil 793 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:13,310 is a common thing as well and probably 794 00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:17,330 other things and well certainly yeah 795 00:33:20,980 --> 00:33:18,770 that that's that's something I've known 796 00:33:23,110 --> 00:33:20,990 people to douse for his lost things but 797 00:33:24,850 --> 00:33:23,120 I think as far as financial gain goes 798 00:33:26,950 --> 00:33:24,860 waters a very common when they'll dow's 799 00:33:29,350 --> 00:33:26,960 for the right spot to build a well to 800 00:33:31,450 --> 00:33:29,360 dig a well so anyway this this person's 801 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:31,460 variation is he uses just one rod and 802 00:33:35,470 --> 00:33:34,010 can walk around and find he claimed a 803 00:33:38,890 --> 00:33:35,480 lot of things he claimed disturbed earth 804 00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:38,900 and and other factors but this the test 805 00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:40,370 we settled on was he could definitely 806 00:33:47,470 --> 00:33:43,250 find water in a jug that we hid under 807 00:33:49,990 --> 00:33:47,480 under a filing box a box meant to carry 808 00:33:53,740 --> 00:33:50,000 papers so we basically set up a 809 00:33:55,930 --> 00:33:53,750 condition with 15 boxes and he what was 810 00:33:59,710 --> 00:33:55,940 this this was actually just yesterday so 811 00:34:04,630 --> 00:33:59,720 the the 17th of March to st. Patrick's 812 00:34:06,550 --> 00:34:04,640 Day so so we did yes yes so he set this 813 00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:06,560 up he in our offices at the Center for 814 00:34:12,700 --> 00:34:10,370 inquiry in Los Angeles oh and he came he 815 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:12,710 doubt he pre doused the area and he 816 00:34:15,250 --> 00:34:14,210 found a few areas that he said he was 817 00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:15,260 getting readings from that he was 818 00:34:19,990 --> 00:34:16,610 picking up something maybe there was a 819 00:34:21,910 --> 00:34:20,000 pipe there he does it with just one rod 820 00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:21,920 typically it's to where they cross in 821 00:34:25,870 --> 00:34:23,330 the middle and that's when they got a 822 00:34:27,740 --> 00:34:25,880 signal but in his case it just it'll 823 00:34:28,820 --> 00:34:27,750 it'll just dip off center and 824 00:34:31,129 --> 00:34:28,830 especially if it's really strong it'll 825 00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:31,139 just fall right out of his hand uh it's 826 00:34:35,510 --> 00:34:33,090 a i forget what material he said it was 827 00:34:37,700 --> 00:34:35,520 it just looked like a mean I think it 828 00:34:39,169 --> 00:34:37,710 was not aluminum i'm not sure it was but 829 00:34:40,899 --> 00:34:39,179 he said he's used other wiring as well I 830 00:34:44,899 --> 00:34:40,909 copper wiring and that worked for him 831 00:34:46,490 --> 00:34:44,909 Mikey claimed so anyway in this case he 832 00:34:47,930 --> 00:34:46,500 tooi tested the area found a couple 833 00:34:49,220 --> 00:34:47,940 spots that made him uncomfortable so we 834 00:34:51,020 --> 00:34:49,230 moved boxes around till he was 835 00:34:52,639 --> 00:34:51,030 comfortable that none of the boxes was 836 00:34:55,220 --> 00:34:52,649 in an area that was giving him any any 837 00:34:58,340 --> 00:34:55,230 readings of water and so then we did on 838 00:35:02,570 --> 00:34:58,350 three three phases which gave us odds of 839 00:35:05,930 --> 00:35:02,580 i think it was 3375 to one if he would 840 00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:05,940 get all three in a row I'm not fast on 841 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:07,170 the maths but that was roughly the 842 00:35:12,140 --> 00:35:09,690 figure and so he would have to get get 843 00:35:15,410 --> 00:35:12,150 the the hidden bottle in all three tests 844 00:35:17,780 --> 00:35:15,420 to succeed and so we we double blinded 845 00:35:19,790 --> 00:35:17,790 this where we picked two people to be 846 00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:19,800 team one everybody left the room 847 00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:21,570 including the claimant everyone else the 848 00:35:27,380 --> 00:35:24,090 cameras were shut off except for cameras 849 00:35:28,430 --> 00:35:27,390 used to record it for our proof later on 850 00:35:32,330 --> 00:35:28,440 that everything was carried out properly 851 00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:32,340 and two people would draw a number from 852 00:35:39,590 --> 00:35:36,570 a basket 1 out of 15 and then go around 853 00:35:42,050 --> 00:35:39,600 moving each box rotating each box so 854 00:35:43,550 --> 00:35:42,060 that they all were disturbed and placing 855 00:35:45,770 --> 00:35:43,560 the bottle under the one that was chosen 856 00:35:47,510 --> 00:35:45,780 from the number then leave go into a 857 00:35:49,220 --> 00:35:47,520 room where they had no access to any one 858 00:35:51,140 --> 00:35:49,230 else and call out to let everyone know 859 00:35:52,430 --> 00:35:51,150 that they were clear and go back in that 860 00:35:54,230 --> 00:35:52,440 way where there wasn't contamination 861 00:35:56,540 --> 00:35:54,240 with anyone as they left the room and 862 00:35:58,850 --> 00:35:56,550 then everybody returned the dowser did 863 00:36:00,800 --> 00:35:58,860 his work walked around got a reading and 864 00:36:02,330 --> 00:36:00,810 said yep that's the box that definitely 865 00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:02,340 the water bottles under that one and 866 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:05,130 they lifted that box and a water bottle 867 00:36:08,390 --> 00:36:06,810 and then the the other team would come 868 00:36:10,130 --> 00:36:08,400 back in and reveal which box it was 869 00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:10,140 actually under and then they you know 870 00:36:14,060 --> 00:36:11,610 check all the other boxers to prove that 871 00:36:16,750 --> 00:36:14,070 there weren't any false readings and so 872 00:36:18,890 --> 00:36:16,760 this was carried out three times and and 873 00:36:21,740 --> 00:36:18,900 unfortunately for the dowser who was 874 00:36:24,230 --> 00:36:21,750 very confident that he could definitely 875 00:36:26,060 --> 00:36:24,240 do what he claimed he could do he 876 00:36:27,470 --> 00:36:26,070 succeed he did not succeed on any of the 877 00:36:29,180 --> 00:36:27,480 three tests 878 00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:29,190 God zero out of three and you could see 879 00:36:33,950 --> 00:36:30,690 the poor guy was was getting more 880 00:36:35,450 --> 00:36:33,960 dejected as he went along I you can 881 00:36:37,340 --> 00:36:35,460 never tell what's in the the heart and 882 00:36:39,740 --> 00:36:37,350 mind of someone but at least my personal 883 00:36:41,660 --> 00:36:39,750 opinion was he was he was genuine in his 884 00:36:43,460 --> 00:36:41,670 belief that he had this ability and to 885 00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:43,470 give him credit he seemed also very 886 00:36:48,859 --> 00:36:45,930 genuine in desiring that we handled the 887 00:36:50,780 --> 00:36:48,869 test honestly not just to be fair to him 888 00:36:52,430 --> 00:36:50,790 but he was asking us questions about how 889 00:36:54,140 --> 00:36:52,440 we were binding it to really ensure we 890 00:36:56,540 --> 00:36:54,150 were blinding it so he seemed to 891 00:36:58,870 --> 00:36:56,550 genuinely want to prove that this was 892 00:37:01,580 --> 00:36:58,880 real as well and unfortunately he didn't 893 00:37:03,470 --> 00:37:01,590 I'd say he definitely still seemed 894 00:37:05,450 --> 00:37:03,480 relatively convinced there was something 895 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:05,460 that to his abilities I mean he still 896 00:37:08,359 --> 00:37:07,050 said that when he went home he was still 897 00:37:10,010 --> 00:37:08,369 going to be continuing to practice it 898 00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:10,020 and because he says he knows it works 899 00:37:14,450 --> 00:37:13,050 when he's home so that's a common thing 900 00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:14,460 we deal with these people is there they 901 00:37:17,750 --> 00:37:16,170 usually aren't convinced they don't have 902 00:37:19,190 --> 00:37:17,760 the ability they're just convinced 903 00:37:21,230 --> 00:37:19,200 there's a reason it didn't work here but 904 00:37:23,330 --> 00:37:21,240 he was clearly shaken and disappointed 905 00:37:25,340 --> 00:37:23,340 and you know we see that we always feel 906 00:37:26,599 --> 00:37:25,350 bad for these people I mean a lot of us 907 00:37:28,070 --> 00:37:26,609 are rooting for them even if we don't 908 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:28,080 necessarily believe going and it's going 909 00:37:33,830 --> 00:37:30,090 to work when we see it we sure want to 910 00:37:35,870 --> 00:37:33,840 see something work far I mean ask a 911 00:37:38,060 --> 00:37:35,880 friend relay hey babe did you set up 912 00:37:40,010 --> 00:37:38,070 these jugs I'm gonna step outside now be 913 00:37:42,770 --> 00:37:40,020 back in but don't tell me which one just 914 00:37:44,780 --> 00:37:42,780 a simple like generic like single blinds 915 00:37:48,170 --> 00:37:44,790 things I think a lot of people don't 916 00:37:49,849 --> 00:37:48,180 know what it means to blind study some 917 00:37:51,500 --> 00:37:49,859 like you don't believe you'll even 918 00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:51,510 little kids it's like okay don't tell me 919 00:37:54,260 --> 00:37:52,770 if you're looking at me but I'm gonna 920 00:37:55,730 --> 00:37:54,270 try and guess and then you tell me if I 921 00:37:58,099 --> 00:37:55,740 got it right or not you know and and 922 00:38:00,770 --> 00:37:58,109 this this gentleman Luis did claim that 923 00:38:03,530 --> 00:38:00,780 he has he has done blinded testing with 924 00:38:04,910 --> 00:38:03,540 friends now it's single blinded and that 925 00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:04,920 was a thing that he wasn't familiar with 926 00:38:08,870 --> 00:38:07,290 wolf of y singh y double blinding was 927 00:38:10,820 --> 00:38:08,880 important and we had to explain that to 928 00:38:13,130 --> 00:38:10,830 him after the fact but he has single 929 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:13,140 blonde he's has friends never to this 930 00:38:16,849 --> 00:38:14,490 degree he said he's really only done it 931 00:38:18,950 --> 00:38:16,859 under under for hidden objects before 932 00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:18,960 but he'll have his friends hide it under 933 00:38:23,180 --> 00:38:20,850 one of the objects and then he goes and 934 00:38:25,550 --> 00:38:23,190 douses so we had to explain to him that 935 00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:25,560 the subtle clues that another an 936 00:38:29,570 --> 00:38:28,050 observer can give that our subconscious 937 00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:29,580 and of course we we did have to teach 938 00:38:32,810 --> 00:38:31,290 him about the ideomotor effect which is 939 00:38:34,340 --> 00:38:32,820 really what was being employed during 940 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:34,350 the test or at least as far as we're 941 00:38:38,720 --> 00:38:37,170 concerned and he he he kept you know he 942 00:38:40,710 --> 00:38:38,730 kept making claims about seeing my hands 943 00:38:41,910 --> 00:38:40,720 aren't moving and yet the rods going off 944 00:38:44,130 --> 00:38:41,920 perspective and so we really had to 945 00:38:46,650 --> 00:38:44,140 explain to him the concept which he he 946 00:38:47,910 --> 00:38:46,660 hadn't realized was as subtle as it is 947 00:38:49,830 --> 00:38:47,920 as it actually is he was really 948 00:38:51,660 --> 00:38:49,840 expecting he was asking questions well 949 00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:51,670 yeah but if I if I don't know it's there 950 00:38:55,290 --> 00:38:53,650 then why why would I be reacting to it 951 00:38:56,940 --> 00:38:55,300 and you know one person pointed out well 952 00:38:58,589 --> 00:38:56,950 if you went by the first time and you've 953 00:39:00,300 --> 00:38:58,599 got a slight feel about it now you've 954 00:39:02,370 --> 00:39:00,310 convinced yourself that that box is the 955 00:39:04,020 --> 00:39:02,380 one so each time you go back you'll have 956 00:39:06,180 --> 00:39:04,030 that effect so we were explaining the 957 00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:06,190 elements of it but it was that's an 958 00:39:08,820 --> 00:39:07,570 example of one of the many types of 959 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:08,830 tests we go through and it was certainly 960 00:39:12,900 --> 00:39:10,930 one of the more interesting ones so um 961 00:39:15,030 --> 00:39:12,910 he said he went from Arizona yeah he 962 00:39:17,849 --> 00:39:15,040 drove out here himself away from Kenny 963 00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:17,859 contacted you from all the way yes yes 964 00:39:25,730 --> 00:39:22,210 uh I guess not I not that I'm aware of 965 00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:25,740 the iig is branching out we we have 966 00:39:31,109 --> 00:39:28,930 affiliates now not only all over the 967 00:39:33,510 --> 00:39:31,119 United States we've got I think at least 968 00:39:36,720 --> 00:39:33,520 one in Canada and we have interest from 969 00:39:39,450 --> 00:39:36,730 other continents we've gotten people who 970 00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:39,460 are really hoping to possibly set up iig 971 00:39:43,740 --> 00:39:41,290 affiliates in completely different 972 00:39:45,570 --> 00:39:43,750 places a real surprises we've gotten 973 00:39:49,170 --> 00:39:45,580 some contact from Africa we've gotten 974 00:39:50,550 --> 00:39:49,180 some contact from Poland I'm trying to 975 00:39:52,940 --> 00:39:50,560 member off top my head but these places 976 00:39:55,230 --> 00:39:52,950 that would be really you'd be surprised 977 00:39:56,460 --> 00:39:55,240 although happily surprised to find out 978 00:39:57,839 --> 00:39:56,470 that yeah there are real there are 979 00:39:59,490 --> 00:39:57,849 skeptics everywhere and there's some 980 00:40:01,050 --> 00:39:59,500 places that sure as heck need them I 981 00:40:03,780 --> 00:40:01,060 mean it's bad enough here obviously in 982 00:40:06,420 --> 00:40:03,790 the u.s. you know we here in the US we 983 00:40:08,670 --> 00:40:06,430 hear about all the all the ass-kicking 984 00:40:10,260 --> 00:40:08,680 that Australia is doing but 985 00:40:11,820 --> 00:40:10,270 realistically there's some some 986 00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:11,830 countries that really need some help and 987 00:40:15,870 --> 00:40:13,330 it's nice to know that there are people 988 00:40:18,780 --> 00:40:15,880 there who are trying so I'm also tell me 989 00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:18,790 about um the odds must be crazy yes how 990 00:40:22,710 --> 00:40:20,770 long has that been going on like well 991 00:40:24,300 --> 00:40:22,720 the odds must be crazy is a project 992 00:40:26,970 --> 00:40:24,310 that's been in the works for a couple 993 00:40:28,349 --> 00:40:26,980 years now the basis of this one and I 994 00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:28,359 definitely want to make sure this this 995 00:40:31,650 --> 00:40:29,530 credits given out because really 996 00:40:34,380 --> 00:40:31,660 deserved a member of our group Wendy 997 00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:34,390 Hughes who's been part of the iig for if 998 00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:35,890 not as long as it's been around then 999 00:40:42,210 --> 00:40:38,170 nearly as long as we've been in in in 1000 00:40:44,339 --> 00:40:42,220 business so to speak she she got the 1001 00:40:47,099 --> 00:40:44,349 idea to start tracking stories about 1002 00:40:48,780 --> 00:40:47,109 coincidences basically just those those 1003 00:40:50,250 --> 00:40:48,790 too good to be true or too crazy to be 1004 00:40:52,859 --> 00:40:50,260 true kind of stories that everybody 1005 00:40:54,180 --> 00:40:52,869 experiences and she wanted to see you 1006 00:40:54,390 --> 00:40:54,190 know start collecting them see is there 1007 00:40:56,069 --> 00:40:54,400 some 1008 00:40:58,680 --> 00:40:56,079 thing here that maybe we're missing or 1009 00:41:00,029 --> 00:40:58,690 what can we learn from these and so it 1010 00:41:03,210 --> 00:41:00,039 was a group project to just try to 1011 00:41:05,250 --> 00:41:03,220 collect these stories my involvement was 1012 00:41:06,990 --> 00:41:05,260 I got the idea to actually convert it 1013 00:41:09,779 --> 00:41:07,000 into a public website instead of a 1014 00:41:11,039 --> 00:41:09,789 private project and actually start 1015 00:41:13,109 --> 00:41:11,049 collecting these stories from more than 1016 00:41:16,019 --> 00:41:13,119 just our group but from anyone reading 1017 00:41:18,809 --> 00:41:16,029 the site so the basic principle to 1018 00:41:19,980 --> 00:41:18,819 explain it is we collect exactly the 1019 00:41:21,779 --> 00:41:19,990 sort of stories I was talking about 1020 00:41:23,549 --> 00:41:21,789 everybody experiences things like 1021 00:41:25,529 --> 00:41:23,559 whether it's a dreaming about a 1022 00:41:27,690 --> 00:41:25,539 celebrity and then the next day you find 1023 00:41:28,950 --> 00:41:27,700 out they passed away or thinking about 1024 00:41:30,329 --> 00:41:28,960 someone on the phone rings and you 1025 00:41:33,150 --> 00:41:30,339 answer it and they're the ones calling 1026 00:41:34,589 --> 00:41:33,160 or running into a college buddy in a 1027 00:41:37,170 --> 00:41:34,599 completely different part of the world 1028 00:41:38,789 --> 00:41:37,180 and being surprised by it or some even 1029 00:41:40,980 --> 00:41:38,799 much cooler stories that we start to 1030 00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:40,990 pick up on that have surprised us but 1031 00:41:46,109 --> 00:41:44,410 the idea is to show these stories share 1032 00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:46,119 them celebrate them we're not trying to 1033 00:41:49,740 --> 00:41:47,770 put them down and say oh this isn't that 1034 00:41:51,779 --> 00:41:49,750 interesting a story it you know it it 1035 00:41:54,359 --> 00:41:51,789 could happen anyone know it's very cool 1036 00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:54,369 these these stories amaze all of us no 1037 00:41:58,440 --> 00:41:55,930 matter what we know about them already 1038 00:41:59,990 --> 00:41:58,450 but it's to share them so Wendy and I 1039 00:42:02,099 --> 00:42:00,000 worked really hard on this project 1040 00:42:05,519 --> 00:42:02,109 developing a plan for the website 1041 00:42:06,990 --> 00:42:05,529 developing our business model so to 1042 00:42:08,849 --> 00:42:07,000 speak even though there's no money in 1043 00:42:11,250 --> 00:42:08,859 this whatsoever and that's not the goal 1044 00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:11,260 it's just for fun and it's it's an 1045 00:42:16,799 --> 00:42:15,010 opportunity well yes well and that's the 1046 00:42:19,289 --> 00:42:16,809 idea is we want the site to appeal to 1047 00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:19,299 everyone this is not an overtly 1048 00:42:24,539 --> 00:42:21,130 skeptical site or at least that was the 1049 00:42:26,670 --> 00:42:24,549 plan is it's a site to share fun stories 1050 00:42:29,609 --> 00:42:26,680 and then occasionally we're going to 1051 00:42:32,250 --> 00:42:29,619 inject editorials that will teach people 1052 00:42:33,690 --> 00:42:32,260 as well about what's going on beyond it 1053 00:42:36,059 --> 00:42:33,700 so whether it's an editorial comment 1054 00:42:38,130 --> 00:42:36,069 under the story that mentions some of 1055 00:42:40,099 --> 00:42:38,140 the aspects of it that would explain it 1056 00:42:42,690 --> 00:42:40,109 we're going to try to start injecting 1057 00:42:45,870 --> 00:42:42,700 injecting some statistics into the 1058 00:42:48,420 --> 00:42:45,880 stories and just expanding out so that 1059 00:42:50,279 --> 00:42:48,430 people will hopefully learn but at the 1060 00:42:52,230 --> 00:42:50,289 very least if they don't learn they're 1061 00:42:54,180 --> 00:42:52,240 just going to be entertained and we make 1062 00:42:56,519 --> 00:42:54,190 it easy to share the stories on various 1063 00:42:58,529 --> 00:42:56,529 social websites so you can easily click 1064 00:43:00,720 --> 00:42:58,539 a button to instantly tweet it or like 1065 00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:00,730 it on Facebook or +1 and on google or 1066 00:43:04,589 --> 00:43:02,890 things like that I think it's really 1067 00:43:05,980 --> 00:43:04,599 valuable these days because people live 1068 00:43:08,859 --> 00:43:05,990 on social network 1069 00:43:11,260 --> 00:43:08,869 and so it's an and honestly a large 1070 00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:11,270 percentage of our hits so far come from 1071 00:43:14,770 --> 00:43:13,130 social network so people are clearly 1072 00:43:17,020 --> 00:43:14,780 sharing stories on there and we've got 1073 00:43:18,730 --> 00:43:17,030 assuming people are check the box that 1074 00:43:20,590 --> 00:43:18,740 says they allow it we've got people's 1075 00:43:22,230 --> 00:43:20,600 actual names on the story so they can 1076 00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:22,240 feel a personal connection to the story 1077 00:43:27,070 --> 00:43:25,850 so that's that's important and and we're 1078 00:43:28,780 --> 00:43:27,080 expanding I mean we've been getting 1079 00:43:30,700 --> 00:43:28,790 stories from people in the skeptical 1080 00:43:32,470 --> 00:43:30,710 community George Rob mentioned us 1081 00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:32,480 recently on the podcast because someone 1082 00:43:35,980 --> 00:43:34,130 had actually mentioned him in a story 1083 00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:35,990 and he got a kick out of that and I 1084 00:43:40,030 --> 00:43:37,970 loved it because he really spent some 1085 00:43:43,030 --> 00:43:40,040 time on his podcast talking specifically 1086 00:43:44,859 --> 00:43:43,040 about exactly what we're about from his 1087 00:43:45,970 --> 00:43:44,869 own perspective he told a story of 1088 00:43:47,470 --> 00:43:45,980 something that happened to him that I 1089 00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:47,480 just I loved and it was a great example 1090 00:43:52,450 --> 00:43:49,610 of something that was a really eerie 1091 00:43:54,580 --> 00:43:52,460 freaky coincidence and more importantly 1092 00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:54,590 as he pointed out it had no meaning it 1093 00:43:57,640 --> 00:43:56,210 didn't it didn't lead to anything it 1094 00:44:00,490 --> 00:43:57,650 didn't cause anything there wasn't 1095 00:44:02,830 --> 00:44:00,500 anything about his story that he could 1096 00:44:04,660 --> 00:44:02,840 learn from but if that could be 1097 00:44:06,310 --> 00:44:04,670 something that freakish can happen that 1098 00:44:07,630 --> 00:44:06,320 has no meaning then odds are 1099 00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:07,640 occasionally someone's going to have 1100 00:44:10,870 --> 00:44:09,050 something that freakish that to them 1101 00:44:12,460 --> 00:44:10,880 does have a meaning and they'll apply 1102 00:44:15,420 --> 00:44:12,470 that to their lives and really think 1103 00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:15,430 it's a sign from something or you know 1104 00:44:20,230 --> 00:44:18,410 fate or whatever you'll call it so it's 1105 00:44:21,820 --> 00:44:20,240 easy to understand why people people put 1106 00:44:23,620 --> 00:44:21,830 so much power behind these things so i 1107 00:44:25,060 --> 00:44:23,630 really liked what he wrote and i got his 1108 00:44:27,930 --> 00:44:25,070 permission and it's been transcribed and 1109 00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:27,940 put up on our website as an editorial so 1110 00:44:31,750 --> 00:44:29,810 aside from him we've had some 1111 00:44:33,930 --> 00:44:31,760 interesting guest writers yes yes we 1112 00:44:36,609 --> 00:44:33,940 just put up a story from from barry car 1113 00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:36,619 barbara dresser is involved in a site 1114 00:44:40,090 --> 00:44:38,690 she's written at least one editorial now 1115 00:44:41,890 --> 00:44:40,100 she's got more she's gonna be working on 1116 00:44:45,010 --> 00:44:41,900 and she's me doing some statistics work 1117 00:44:46,990 --> 00:44:45,020 for us who else has that we've got a few 1118 00:44:48,700 --> 00:44:47,000 on the back burner from from a few names 1119 00:44:50,500 --> 00:44:48,710 in the community so I you know I'll day 1120 00:44:52,570 --> 00:44:50,510 be as those DB you will see they 1121 00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:52,580 absolutely right and we've got we've got 1122 00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:54,410 exciting news coming up that I will not 1123 00:44:58,359 --> 00:44:56,450 I will not give up I will not give out 1124 00:45:00,190 --> 00:44:58,369 yet we will be making a different kind 1125 00:45:02,380 --> 00:45:00,200 of premier for the odds must be crazy 1126 00:45:04,599 --> 00:45:02,390 soon that will hopefully put us on the 1127 00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:04,609 radar for a lot more people nice you 1128 00:45:08,109 --> 00:45:06,410 know so that's a good project yeah Wendy 1129 00:45:10,050 --> 00:45:08,119 and I worked very hard on it she is 1130 00:45:11,590 --> 00:45:10,060 constantly working in the background 1131 00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:11,600 communicating with people getting 1132 00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:14,090 stories uploaded she's doing all of the 1133 00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:15,770 I guess you could call it the 1134 00:45:19,660 --> 00:45:18,050 administrative work where they personal 1135 00:45:20,740 --> 00:45:19,670 work really communicating 1136 00:45:23,049 --> 00:45:20,750 people and making sure that that 1137 00:45:24,609 --> 00:45:23,059 personal touch is there and then now as 1138 00:45:26,859 --> 00:45:24,619 the geek i am i'm doing the technical 1139 00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:26,869 stuff and we've got a few other people 1140 00:45:31,299 --> 00:45:28,490 within the iig helping us out we've got 1141 00:45:32,980 --> 00:45:31,309 Susan garba coo is really great with her 1142 00:45:36,630 --> 00:45:32,990 guerrilla skepticism on Wikipedia 1143 00:45:38,650 --> 00:45:36,640 concept that's huge for the iig and 1144 00:45:40,390 --> 00:45:38,660 skepticism in general and she's been a 1145 00:45:42,220 --> 00:45:40,400 great cheerleader for us constantly 1146 00:45:44,319 --> 00:45:42,230 tweeting and facebooking our stuff and 1147 00:45:46,059 --> 00:45:44,329 and contacting people about it and just 1148 00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:46,069 in general we've got several team 1149 00:45:50,140 --> 00:45:47,690 members who write a lot of stories Brian 1150 00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:50,150 heart from the iig is probably the 1151 00:45:55,809 --> 00:45:53,170 single largest submitter to our site 1152 00:45:57,370 --> 00:45:55,819 marc-edouard marquette oh yes mark 1153 00:45:59,049 --> 00:45:57,380 edward has written a couple editorials 1154 00:46:02,770 --> 00:45:59,059 for us now absolutely and he talked 1155 00:46:05,859 --> 00:46:02,780 about us on his blog on on skeptics blog 1156 00:46:07,359 --> 00:46:05,869 and another member of our team of the 1157 00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:07,369 steering committee Spencer marks has 1158 00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:08,450 written something probably the most of 1159 00:46:12,730 --> 00:46:10,010 the most entertaining stories we've got 1160 00:46:14,710 --> 00:46:12,740 up there so we've got our own team is 1161 00:46:17,319 --> 00:46:14,720 really regularly contributing but we 1162 00:46:19,030 --> 00:46:17,329 have broken out well past not past our 1163 00:46:20,559 --> 00:46:19,040 own community to even pass the skeptical 1164 00:46:22,900 --> 00:46:20,569 community we are getting submissions for 1165 00:46:24,849 --> 00:46:22,910 people great to have people outside 1166 00:46:26,260 --> 00:46:24,859 because you don't yes it look like no 1167 00:46:28,690 --> 00:46:26,270 this is not a preaching to the choir 1168 00:46:30,250 --> 00:46:28,700 such psychological inbreeding correct 1169 00:46:32,470 --> 00:46:30,260 correct this is not preaching the choir 1170 00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:32,480 this is meant to reach out well past our 1171 00:46:36,579 --> 00:46:33,890 community and we are getting regular 1172 00:46:38,589 --> 00:46:36,589 hits from people who clearly are finding 1173 00:46:40,539 --> 00:46:38,599 we're finding our links to our site on 1174 00:46:43,390 --> 00:46:40,549 sites that have nothing to skepticism 1175 00:46:44,650 --> 00:46:43,400 now we're finding stories submitted to 1176 00:46:46,780 --> 00:46:44,660 us from people who clearly are not 1177 00:46:48,970 --> 00:46:46,790 connected comments from people who found 1178 00:46:50,710 --> 00:46:48,980 us through crazy search terms i mean 1179 00:46:52,720 --> 00:46:50,720 we're getting hits on various things 1180 00:46:54,609 --> 00:46:52,730 that are are not related at all and 1181 00:46:56,799 --> 00:46:54,619 that's the point is we wanted to reach 1182 00:46:58,270 --> 00:46:56,809 out to people who would otherwise not 1183 00:47:00,670 --> 00:46:58,280 purposefully put themselves in our 1184 00:47:02,230 --> 00:47:00,680 enemies so important because you could 1185 00:47:03,940 --> 00:47:02,240 really help some people who are like 1186 00:47:05,349 --> 00:47:03,950 this crazy coincidence happen and I 1187 00:47:08,319 --> 00:47:05,359 don't know what to make of it right 1188 00:47:09,970 --> 00:47:08,329 right and and they're safe things like 1189 00:47:11,260 --> 00:47:09,980 that yeah absolutely so it just it's 1190 00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:11,270 entertaining and we're finding patterns 1191 00:47:14,140 --> 00:47:12,890 in them now that we're going to we're 1192 00:47:16,030 --> 00:47:14,150 going start building off of the patterns 1193 00:47:17,289 --> 00:47:16,040 and seeing what we've what we can learn 1194 00:47:19,059 --> 00:47:17,299 from them but we're finding a lot of 1195 00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:19,069 stories of very similar types of events 1196 00:47:23,140 --> 00:47:20,930 and that's kind of interesting but 1197 00:47:25,030 --> 00:47:23,150 absolutely we don't want to we don't 1198 00:47:26,950 --> 00:47:25,040 want to ruin the fun for people we're 1199 00:47:29,170 --> 00:47:26,960 not here to set out and say your story 1200 00:47:31,299 --> 00:47:29,180 isn't interesting it's it is very 1201 00:47:31,950 --> 00:47:31,309 interesting regardless of whether it 1202 00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:31,960 means 1203 00:47:38,070 --> 00:47:35,170 something more it it can be fun just on 1204 00:47:48,870 --> 00:47:38,080 its own oh yeah it's great thank you for 1205 00:47:53,380 --> 00:47:52,060 I'm Eugenie Scott executive director of 1206 00:47:56,380 --> 00:47:53,390 the National Center for Science 1207 00:47:58,180 --> 00:47:56,390 Education in Oakland California we 1208 00:48:00,010 --> 00:47:58,190 defend and support the teaching of 1209 00:48:01,870 --> 00:48:00,020 evolution and climate change when it 1210 00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:01,880 comes under attack for religious and 1211 00:48:06,430 --> 00:48:04,010 political reasons we help teachers 1212 00:48:09,070 --> 00:48:06,440 parents school boards and other citizens 1213 00:48:12,609 --> 00:48:09,080 defend good science in the schools come 1214 00:48:15,190 --> 00:48:12,619 visit us at NCSE calm and on youtube and 1215 00:48:16,990 --> 00:48:15,200 facebook and let us know if science 1216 00:48:35,730 --> 00:48:17,000 comes under attack in your community 1217 00:48:40,210 --> 00:48:38,079 well it's hard to believe it really is 1218 00:48:42,339 --> 00:48:40,220 that QED has just entered the last 1219 00:48:44,740 --> 00:48:42,349 session with joe nickell followed by 1220 00:48:47,140 --> 00:48:44,750 lots of warm speeches by the organizers 1221 00:48:50,230 --> 00:48:47,150 but how lucky am I listeners and I 1222 00:48:52,450 --> 00:48:50,240 finally get to meet Kristen Carson from 1223 00:48:56,170 --> 00:48:52,460 the norwegian skeptics hi hey you are 1224 00:48:58,960 --> 00:48:56,180 lucky aren't you yeah I like a secure 1225 00:49:00,640 --> 00:48:58,970 voice I am very lucky of course to meet 1226 00:49:03,220 --> 00:49:00,650 you I because we've been corresponding 1227 00:49:05,970 --> 00:49:03,230 for a long time we have well it's been 1228 00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:05,980 it seems like a long time oh yeah I mean 1229 00:49:12,430 --> 00:49:08,930 when was that interview I had with you 1230 00:49:15,609 --> 00:49:12,440 that was it when did you do the 10 23 I 1231 00:49:18,700 --> 00:49:15,619 did in February of yeah pepper have lost 1232 00:49:20,799 --> 00:49:18,710 last year 2011 I think it was another 1233 00:49:24,039 --> 00:49:20,809 route yeah only only that roof because 1234 00:49:26,049 --> 00:49:24,049 that was the last QED ok that was like 1235 00:49:28,769 --> 00:49:26,059 it seemed like a long time because I saw 1236 00:49:32,230 --> 00:49:28,779 you on a video you they were in Oslo 1237 00:49:34,390 --> 00:49:32,240 overdosing on homeopathic medicine I 1238 00:49:35,980 --> 00:49:34,400 thought as she someone I want to 1239 00:49:37,749 --> 00:49:35,990 interview look at her she's fronting the 1240 00:49:40,089 --> 00:49:37,759 camera she's getting out there and she's 1241 00:49:43,299 --> 00:49:40,099 leading the people in this overdose and 1242 00:49:45,999 --> 00:49:43,309 I contacted you I can't remember how I 1243 00:49:47,259 --> 00:49:46,009 wrote some something or other and we got 1244 00:49:50,289 --> 00:49:47,269 in touch and then I interviewed you yeah 1245 00:49:52,650 --> 00:49:50,299 that's right yeah no I and I don't know 1246 00:49:54,670 --> 00:49:52,660 if you could see the panic in my face 1247 00:49:56,589 --> 00:49:54,680 during that video because I knew that 1248 00:49:58,599 --> 00:49:56,599 there would be put up on YouTube and 1249 00:50:00,400 --> 00:49:58,609 stuff like that for now but yeah it was 1250 00:50:01,930 --> 00:50:00,410 it was a that was a lot of fun i said 1251 00:50:03,309 --> 00:50:01,940 that last time as well mmm you're 1252 00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:03,319 looking different now because on that 1253 00:50:08,499 --> 00:50:05,450 video you're dressed up for the cold 1254 00:50:10,930 --> 00:50:08,509 just off the coldest februari a bit 1255 00:50:13,059 --> 00:50:10,940 milder here in Manchester haha very nice 1256 00:50:17,170 --> 00:50:13,069 really nice it's just been a great 1257 00:50:21,430 --> 00:50:17,180 weekend customer it has there's been a 1258 00:50:24,609 --> 00:50:21,440 while since I was a mai-mai usually 1259 00:50:27,519 --> 00:50:24,619 needed nerd conference so that was that 1260 00:50:30,370 --> 00:50:27,529 was a relief to finally go and cut you a 1261 00:50:33,730 --> 00:50:30,380 class yourself as a nerd well I have to 1262 00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:33,740 I mean and no no I'm cheering for the 1263 00:50:37,940 --> 00:50:34,410 Nerds 1264 00:50:41,630 --> 00:50:37,950 yeah why not yeah like I like the signs 1265 00:50:44,900 --> 00:50:41,640 and I like the the skeptics and I like 1266 00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:44,910 the other themes they discuss I can't 1267 00:50:48,500 --> 00:50:47,010 really choose choose a favorite subject 1268 00:50:50,900 --> 00:50:48,510 is well that's that's one of the things 1269 00:50:52,970 --> 00:50:50,910 I love about conferences like like this 1270 00:50:54,859 --> 00:50:52,980 one which I'm so impressed by this 1271 00:50:58,279 --> 00:50:54,869 conference it's been really really 1272 00:51:00,710 --> 00:50:58,289 really good and add tam of course and 1273 00:51:02,690 --> 00:51:00,720 things like that is the variety yes 1274 00:51:05,029 --> 00:51:02,700 there's all sorts of topics and issues 1275 00:51:07,730 --> 00:51:05,039 being covered yeah i mean i was i was 1276 00:51:09,230 --> 00:51:07,740 just finished you know yesterday there 1277 00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:09,240 was a couple really interesting panels 1278 00:51:16,700 --> 00:51:13,410 on you know activism outreach and also 1279 00:51:18,500 --> 00:51:16,710 panel cryptozoology and I've seen a talk 1280 00:51:21,370 --> 00:51:18,510 about UFOs and it seemed talk about you 1281 00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:21,380 first lived also as we and then suddenly 1282 00:51:28,099 --> 00:51:24,450 the fantastic Miriam namazi comes up and 1283 00:51:30,079 --> 00:51:28,109 talks about you know secularism to fight 1284 00:51:32,180 --> 00:51:30,089 organized religion and it was just so 1285 00:51:36,109 --> 00:51:32,190 moving I couldn't can believe some of 1286 00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:36,119 the things I heard yeah well I was you 1287 00:51:42,260 --> 00:51:39,930 are up in the in the privileged area VIP 1288 00:51:45,319 --> 00:51:42,270 area I got I got an invitation from a 1289 00:51:48,230 --> 00:51:45,329 mysterious figure in the hallway there 1290 00:51:51,859 --> 00:51:48,240 and when that wonderful talk about UFOs 1291 00:51:53,539 --> 00:51:51,869 was was on and I you know I i still find 1292 00:51:55,779 --> 00:51:53,549 that really interesting all that UFO 1293 00:52:01,819 --> 00:51:55,789 stuff and it was such a good talk I 1294 00:52:05,390 --> 00:52:01,829 remember only slightly when I was bit 1295 00:52:07,940 --> 00:52:05,400 from late childhood too early teenagers 1296 00:52:08,959 --> 00:52:07,950 I was completely fascinated by the UFO 1297 00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:08,969 stuff because I've always been 1298 00:52:14,449 --> 00:52:11,130 interested in space and his mommy that's 1299 00:52:16,819 --> 00:52:14,459 why I studied astronomy and and if I was 1300 00:52:18,499 --> 00:52:16,829 a really big UFO fan as well I can 1301 00:52:22,130 --> 00:52:18,509 really think critically about it back 1302 00:52:24,529 --> 00:52:22,140 then and I ripped taping all the UFO 1303 00:52:26,329 --> 00:52:24,539 documentaries yes yes listen to all the 1304 00:52:29,359 --> 00:52:26,339 testimonies of people who worked at area 1305 00:52:31,190 --> 00:52:29,369 51 I was like I just thought you know I 1306 00:52:32,420 --> 00:52:31,200 was a naive kid and I thought I mean 1307 00:52:34,249 --> 00:52:32,430 these are grown-up people on television 1308 00:52:36,859 --> 00:52:34,259 they they didn't they can't lie about 1309 00:52:39,469 --> 00:52:36,869 what they say but after a while I 1310 00:52:41,359 --> 00:52:39,479 learned that they actually can well at 1311 00:52:42,890 --> 00:52:41,369 least be diluted about idea so it's not 1312 00:52:45,049 --> 00:52:42,900 really the best way to put it he 1313 00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:45,059 delusional make mistakes yeah so it's 1314 00:52:52,729 --> 00:52:48,450 really interesting to slowly learn about 1315 00:52:54,589 --> 00:52:52,739 that process is that what what sparked 1316 00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:54,599 your interest generally in skepticism do 1317 00:52:59,690 --> 00:52:56,130 you think something like that yeah it 1318 00:53:01,190 --> 00:52:59,700 has to be I think the fact that i'm 1319 00:53:04,190 --> 00:53:01,200 always been interested in astronomy is 1320 00:53:06,259 --> 00:53:04,200 what made me be more rational because 1321 00:53:10,099 --> 00:53:06,269 that led me out to the University where 1322 00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:10,109 I took some you know you have some 1323 00:53:13,609 --> 00:53:11,729 preparing studies media and philosophy 1324 00:53:15,049 --> 00:53:13,619 and all that and me suddenly I learned 1325 00:53:17,269 --> 00:53:15,059 about the difference between science and 1326 00:53:21,049 --> 00:53:17,279 pseudoscience you know I no one has told 1327 00:53:23,390 --> 00:53:21,059 me that before so I was a yeah I 1328 00:53:26,059 --> 00:53:23,400 couldn't blame myself a bit because i 1329 00:53:28,099 --> 00:53:26,069 was a bit lazy and when i was when i was 1330 00:53:31,579 --> 00:53:28,109 younger but I'm fun I've caught up now 1331 00:53:33,229 --> 00:53:31,589 how did how did you meet with merit 1332 00:53:35,180 --> 00:53:33,239 because you two seem to be the face of 1333 00:53:41,380 --> 00:53:35,190 Norwegian skepticism on earth yeah 1334 00:53:46,849 --> 00:53:41,390 combined face mart cool yes we didn't 1335 00:53:48,289 --> 00:53:46,859 meet until a while after the the other 1336 00:53:51,529 --> 00:53:48,299 conference which was held in london the 1337 00:53:53,660 --> 00:53:51,539 tan London in 2009 so far so you haven't 1338 00:53:57,890 --> 00:53:53,670 known each other that long yeah no I 1339 00:54:01,099 --> 00:53:57,900 mean she she was studying biology same 1340 00:54:03,380 --> 00:54:01,109 university as me and we were both of 1341 00:54:06,380 --> 00:54:03,390 that conference but I I never got the 1342 00:54:08,420 --> 00:54:06,390 chance to to talk to her then so I 1343 00:54:09,590 --> 00:54:08,430 remember seeing her and all the 1344 00:54:12,230 --> 00:54:09,600 Norwegians 1345 00:54:14,300 --> 00:54:12,240 that conference but it was it was just 1346 00:54:16,780 --> 00:54:14,310 after that conference where we were 1347 00:54:20,780 --> 00:54:16,790 discussing on the skeptics forum 1348 00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:20,790 discussion for him I know I where she 1349 00:54:25,820 --> 00:54:23,130 and a couple of other people one really 1350 00:54:28,250 --> 00:54:25,830 really wanted to start a conference like 1351 00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:28,260 that in in Norway and then particularly 1352 00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:32,850 in Oslo and I was just so incredibly 1353 00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:35,610 motivated after Tim London Jesus nice I 1354 00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:37,410 just but I had up in the air frantically 1355 00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:38,970 and said I have no idea what I can do 1356 00:54:44,330 --> 00:54:40,890 but I rule I will join you guys who will 1357 00:54:46,310 --> 00:54:44,340 join us so after that I just got to know 1358 00:54:48,710 --> 00:54:46,320 them better and go to a couple of 1359 00:54:52,220 --> 00:54:48,720 skeptics in the pub meetings and yeah 1360 00:54:54,410 --> 00:54:52,230 and quest is this rate it would be 1361 00:54:56,690 --> 00:54:54,420 really nice to see you at Taman las 1362 00:54:59,390 --> 00:54:56,700 vegas at something yeah some stage i 1363 00:55:04,550 --> 00:54:59,400 will get to town in Vegas across this 1364 00:55:06,350 --> 00:55:04,560 last year I was wasn't I wasn't that 1365 00:55:08,410 --> 00:55:06,360 many mini conference by way of I 1366 00:55:10,310 --> 00:55:08,420 couldn't make it to Vegas then and 1367 00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:10,320 unfortunately I won't be able to get 1368 00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:13,290 there this year either because i am 1369 00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:16,290 going to place you might know australia 1370 00:55:21,740 --> 00:55:19,170 in south huh yeah just a week and a half 1371 00:55:24,490 --> 00:55:21,750 from now yeah this is probably all i 1372 00:55:26,750 --> 00:55:24,500 think about it's going to be fantastic 1373 00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:26,760 so yeah i'm basically using up all my 1374 00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:30,090 money and vacation time Olivia if you 1375 00:55:33,980 --> 00:55:32,490 had to go somewhere other than the 1376 00:55:37,970 --> 00:55:33,990 amazing meeting in las vegas i guess 1377 00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:37,980 Australia's economy I actually I did 1378 00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:41,010 notice that the last weekend that I'm in 1379 00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:42,810 in in Australia in Melbourne actually 1380 00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:44,850 there's there's an atheist conference 1381 00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:48,210 yes I am yeah and so yeah I'm going to 1382 00:55:54,740 --> 00:55:51,330 that as well so looking forward to that 1383 00:55:56,300 --> 00:55:54,750 it should be really exciting the the 1384 00:55:58,160 --> 00:55:56,310 four horsemen it was supposed to be 1385 00:56:00,650 --> 00:55:58,170 there because the Hitchens can't be 1386 00:56:02,480 --> 00:56:00,660 there but yeah the rest that will 1387 00:56:04,700 --> 00:56:02,490 obviously tend and lots of other 1388 00:56:06,860 --> 00:56:04,710 interesting people now can you envisage 1389 00:56:08,420 --> 00:56:06,870 at some stage in the future and the 1390 00:56:10,850 --> 00:56:08,430 answer has to be yes there's going to be 1391 00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:10,860 a big skeptical convention in Norway 1392 00:56:14,450 --> 00:56:13,050 we're speakers from all around the world 1393 00:56:16,250 --> 00:56:14,460 because you've already had James Randi 1394 00:56:16,839 --> 00:56:16,260 day and that was a big success yeah that 1395 00:56:21,009 --> 00:56:16,849 was the 1396 00:56:23,650 --> 00:56:21,019 association great campaign on critical 1397 00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:23,660 thinking from started in beginning of 1398 00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:26,930 2011 as well which I chaired a long 1399 00:56:32,739 --> 00:56:30,410 massively and that was just a huge 1400 00:56:36,370 --> 00:56:32,749 success because he had like a small tour 1401 00:56:41,469 --> 00:56:36,380 of the of Norway and he just filled up 1402 00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:41,479 I'm saying video it's available I if 1403 00:56:46,870 --> 00:56:43,970 it's YouTube or another service but it's 1404 00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:46,880 not hard to find yes you just google it 1405 00:56:51,700 --> 00:56:50,210 and will come up and yeah we would it we 1406 00:56:53,739 --> 00:56:51,710 did get them to come to the skeptics in 1407 00:56:57,329 --> 00:56:53,749 the pub in Oslo and we just we just took 1408 00:57:00,339 --> 00:56:57,339 over the entire cafe when we we were and 1409 00:57:02,769 --> 00:57:00,349 got to interview and for for my podcast 1410 00:57:06,039 --> 00:57:02,779 as well so that was that was fantastic 1411 00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:06,049 and i love that initiative by the 1412 00:57:09,969 --> 00:57:08,690 humanists like campaign on critical 1413 00:57:12,249 --> 00:57:09,979 thinking is it's been quite 1414 00:57:14,769 --> 00:57:12,259 controversial actually it was a lot of 1415 00:57:17,529 --> 00:57:14,779 flak from the the alternative movement 1416 00:57:20,079 --> 00:57:17,539 because I mean the humanist association 1417 00:57:23,410 --> 00:57:20,089 is what BEC you know and i will vocal 1418 00:57:25,209 --> 00:57:23,420 and and people know about them so that 1419 00:57:26,819 --> 00:57:25,219 means the those people will also know 1420 00:57:30,539 --> 00:57:26,829 about them and they've got lots of 1421 00:57:34,479 --> 00:57:30,549 counter campaigns and you know a bit of 1422 00:57:36,130 --> 00:57:34,489 accuse everyone of bullying and stuff 1423 00:57:38,499 --> 00:57:36,140 like that so this is very interesting to 1424 00:57:40,029 --> 00:57:38,509 follow oh yeah yeah now here's some 1425 00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:40,039 advice for listeners around the world 1426 00:57:45,729 --> 00:57:44,450 run to your DVD library your DVD rental 1427 00:57:48,670 --> 00:57:45,739 library and look for a movie called 1428 00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:48,680 troll hunter it's such fun I heard you 1429 00:57:54,999 --> 00:57:51,410 liked it I love that movie it's a great 1430 00:57:56,920 --> 00:57:55,009 popcorn film yes yeah it's a kind of a 1431 00:57:59,259 --> 00:57:56,930 mockumentary I guess you would call it 1432 00:58:01,660 --> 00:57:59,269 it's like one of those found footage 1433 00:58:03,759 --> 00:58:01,670 mockumentaries where this film was 1434 00:58:05,799 --> 00:58:03,769 discovered yeah you know all the people 1435 00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:05,809 are probably dead by now and then yeah 1436 00:58:11,019 --> 00:58:08,690 so say no more its factor also controls 1437 00:58:13,259 --> 00:58:11,029 in about hunting yes troll yeah yeah 1438 00:58:15,910 --> 00:58:13,269 that's no agent film of course obviously 1439 00:58:17,950 --> 00:58:15,920 my Richard mentions that I didn't I did 1440 00:58:21,789 --> 00:58:17,960 and I don't think I've seen many region 1441 00:58:22,980 --> 00:58:21,799 from no in fact that one is in Norwegian 1442 00:58:26,370 --> 00:58:22,990 too yes 1443 00:58:28,230 --> 00:58:26,380 yeah yeah I'm subtitles were fine I 1444 00:58:30,750 --> 00:58:28,240 guess I me but you do miss a syllable 1445 00:58:33,810 --> 00:58:30,760 some jokes I guess which of Norwegians 1446 00:58:36,930 --> 00:58:33,820 there are some specific in jokes and and 1447 00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:36,940 and things pertaining to the folklore I 1448 00:58:42,750 --> 00:58:40,570 guess around trolls but I mean a couple 1449 00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:42,760 of points are pretty / explained in the 1450 00:58:48,030 --> 00:58:45,130 film think so it's all good it should be 1451 00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:48,040 all get there ah well I've come a long 1452 00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:50,530 way to Manchester but you know what it's 1453 00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:52,930 not that much further to Oslo maybe 1454 00:58:56,670 --> 00:58:55,210 maybe I can put my mind to getting over 1455 00:58:58,890 --> 00:58:56,680 there that is a very good point but 1456 00:59:01,470 --> 00:58:58,900 sometimes I think you should think about 1457 00:59:03,750 --> 00:59:01,480 it really well on it I will you are very 1458 00:59:06,450 --> 00:59:03,760 welcome oh and it also it would love too 1459 00:59:10,650 --> 00:59:06,460 heavy one day yeah I'm yes let's do it 1460 00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:10,660 next year yeah yeah I mean get on foot 1461 00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:13,810 it oh sure Kristen thank you very much 1462 00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:31,759 I am audit by Kristen Aviva tips that I 1463 00:59:35,539 --> 00:59:33,210 some lotion lifted up the skeptic zone 1464 00:59:37,519 --> 00:59:35,549 I'm skeptical million Nadia the VINs not 1465 00:59:39,380 --> 00:59:37,529 a blog gear or Petrov a podcast of 1466 00:59:42,049 --> 00:59:39,390 reading and skip sistema Schlichten this 1467 00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:42,059 drama central i'll skip cystal demo or 1468 00:59:45,499 --> 00:59:43,410 higher publicize the tapes corner 1469 00:59:47,089 --> 00:59:45,509 Chiclets and calendar / activator or 1470 00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:47,099 link it in detail association escapes 1471 00:59:50,029 --> 00:59:48,210 his blog in opportunity I'm Leigh 1472 00:59:51,920 --> 00:59:50,039 autodesk ateres hefty performance so 1473 01:00:08,179 --> 00:59:51,930 stick in them or delta do Lhasa escapes 1474 01:00:15,329 --> 01:00:11,039 thank you for listening to the skeptic 1475 01:00:18,870 --> 01:00:15,339 Zone episode number 179 good heavens 1476 01:00:23,189 --> 01:00:18,880 nearly 180 and a bit later down the year 1477 01:00:26,130 --> 01:00:23,199 will be episode 200 Wow but let's not 1478 01:00:27,390 --> 01:00:26,140 get ahead of ourselves coming up soon 1479 01:00:31,559 --> 01:00:27,400 I'm going to be offering some more 1480 01:00:33,890 --> 01:00:31,569 Maynard merchandise for bid on eBay and 1481 01:00:36,829 --> 01:00:33,900 another you just roll it out here 1482 01:00:40,650 --> 01:00:36,839 another one of these fantastic posters 1483 01:00:42,569 --> 01:00:40,660 from the center for inquiry signed by 1484 01:00:44,789 --> 01:00:42,579 all sorts of people including Brian 1485 01:00:47,729 --> 01:00:44,799 Dunning Phil Plait Maynard himself 1486 01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:47,739 Jeremy Cole rebecca watson steve novella 1487 01:00:55,140 --> 01:00:53,170 and many more could be yours coming up 1488 01:00:59,819 --> 01:00:55,150 in a few weeks I think plus some Maynard 1489 01:01:02,189 --> 01:00:59,829 books and CDs all of that of course is 1490 01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:02,199 to help pay for Maynard's plane ticket 1491 01:01:08,039 --> 01:01:04,930 to Tam in Las Vegas and I'm delighted to 1492 01:01:10,949 --> 01:01:08,049 see and very flattered that I'll be a 1493 01:01:13,859 --> 01:01:10,959 speaker at Taman along with dr. Aichi in 1494 01:01:16,199 --> 01:01:13,869 fact fantastic stuff anyway that's all a 1495 01:01:18,029 --> 01:01:16,209 bit down the track I think I better 1496 01:01:21,329 --> 01:01:18,039 practice some more magic they're going 1497 01:01:24,390 --> 01:01:21,339 to magic cat next to me really you do 1498 01:01:28,289 --> 01:01:24,400 some magic alright mean the cat often do 1499 01:01:30,900 --> 01:01:28,299 some magic and of next week this is 1500 01:01:36,500 --> 01:01:30,910 Richard Saunders signing off from Sydney 1501 01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:38,480 you've been listening to the skeptic 1502 01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:43,290 zone visit her website at www skipped